Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect; End Police Brutality

Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect

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End Police Brutality

In his 2015 Grammy award winning rap performance, “I”, American Rap Performance Artist Kendrick Lamar reveals, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

During a January 20, 2011 LAWeekly interview (Google search) Kendrick, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy award, he told the interviewer:

“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

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Kendrick boldly describes why many CHILDREN deal with depression.

Kendrick describes who is creating/perpetuating poverty and struggle for children when teens and adults make irresponsible, selfish choices by building families with too many mouths to feed.

Kendrick is describing why many police officers fear for their safety when dealing with depressed, angry, frustrated people who were raised in abusive homes, and as they mature resent their parents for introducing them to a life of struggle….though unlike Kendrick and Tupac Shakur who write about their moms depriving them of a safe, fairly happy Average Joe American kid life, many kids blame others for their life of struggle and hardship, often venting their pain and anger on their peaceful neighbors or Average Joe guys like me who wore/wear a blue uniform with every intention of doing good and helping people.

Though after years of witnessing victims of child abuse harm their peaceful neighbors I just wanted to survive without being physically harmed by abused, depressed children who develop into angry, frustrated, unpredictable teens and adults, often venting their anger on their peaceful neighbors or police officers trying to protect their peaceful neighbors from emotional and physical harm inflicted on them by angry, frustrated victims of child abuse.

Franky, day after working day of witnessing the emotional damage caretakers do to their developing children took it’s emotional toll on me.

I grew up listening to the peaceful loving sounds written and composed by talented Americans who created a new genre of music for me, my friends, neighbors and our world to enjoy as I developed into a teen and adult.

Motown musicians gave me every reason to admire and respect them. So essentially I began my young life admiring Americans of African descent for making me and my friends smile and dance to their joyous sounds.

However, listening to the sounds produced by my Motown friend’s children and grandchildren, coupled with twelve years of personally witnessing many American children of African descent being abused, neglected and maltreated by the Americans of African descent who introduced them to a life of pain and struggle, the respect I had for Americans of African descent has diminished.

Sadly, today when I meet an American of African descent I ask myself a question I rarely ask when meeting other people, “Was this person a victim of horrific child abuse, was this person nurtured to embrace the Street Life Toya Graham failed to protect her son Michael from because she irresponsibly built a large family she could not reasonably expect would thrive and flourish?”

Recently I listened to Mr. Barack Obama seemingly lament the speed with which gay Americans went from enjoying little respect from their American neighbors, to being accepted by a good majority of our neighbors.

Sadly, after Americans introduced laws to end legal racism that harmed my Motown friends and multiple generations of their parents and grandparents, Americans of African descent did not enjoy the same accelerated path of acceptance….despite my Motown friends doing their best to show the world they are loving, peaceful people deserving of respect.

Sadly, a depressed population of Americans reeling from emotional pains caused by our human ignorance, used well intentioned social programs to build large and small families of children who ended up like Shawn Jay Z Carter, angry, depressed, unsupervised, running wild through the streets of Brooklyn with his Mack-Milli, causing fear to peaceful people and the police attempting to protect peaceful people. Many were my civilian co-workers, mostly loving competent moms living in this Brooklyn community, daily facing stresses and challenges of protecting their children from being emotionally or physically harmed and/or influenced by children like Shawn Jay Z Carter…or Tupac Shakur, a teen who wrote about committing suicide in his ‘That’s Just The Way It Is’ rap because his parents irresponsibly introduced him to a life of pain and struggle.

Hey, I am not pointing fingers, there is plenty of blame to go around. I recognize we are humans, constantly learning and evolving as individuals and as a society. We make mistakes and we try to correct them. Sadly, inept $politicians$ often slow or stifle our progress and social evolution, as they did when opening the door for depressed people to build large and small families before acquiring the skills and means to provide for their children.

I also recognize we are becoming a people who have little respect for truthfulness, often deflecting blame on others, pointing fingers at me, an Average Joe American who choose a career as a blue American because I thought I could develop a rewarding career by helping my neighbors.

Unfortunately for me, I became a cop around the period of time when many children born just after our nation’s post civil-rights social programs were introduced, matured into depressed angry, young teens and men who needed to vent their anger and frustrations, often harming their peaceful neighbors and communities.

These children and young people like Shawn Jay Z Carter (born Dec 1969) were hit with a double whammy, contending with the emotional trauma their single-moms and/or parents experienced from racism, which resulted in these kids being raised and nurtured by depressed people still understandably peeved about being treated less than equal or as not fully human.

Thankfully my Motown friends showed me not all people succumb to despair and depression, though I’m sure they experienced their share of pain growing up in a predominantly racially ignorant land of people.

Early in my police career when I was assigned to the Brooklyn community Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter raps/writes about attempting destroy by selling poison to people living and working in his community, and rapping about engaging in extremely harmful anti-social behaviors designed to protect his drug operation from rival gangs in adjoining neighborhoods, a few of my training officers advised me to be prepared to experience “culture shock.”

When I asked what is meant by “culture shock,” I was told, “You’ll find out.”

I did find out what “culture shock” is, though it was not a culture of violence and harmful anti-social activities many were insinuating I would be shocked by.

The aspect of this Brooklyn, NY community that shocked me to the core was witnessing children being emotionally scarred by a “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar raps and speaks about some twenty-five years after I first witnessed the “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that today CONTINUES emotionally damaging many developing children and their communities.

I personally witnessed the emotional trauma and physical pain a young, neglected, unsupervised, Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter is responsible for causing, and its aftermath, leaving a community populated by mostly peaceful people fearing for their safety on a 24/7 basis, which are the hours Shawn’s crew/gang were selling community harming substances.

During the twelve years I served this community I met hundreds of peaceful people who were just as shaken, upset and deeply disturbed as I was by the daily displays of violence and other anti-social activities mostly caused by teens and adults who were victims of childhood abuse and neglect.

I stated I would not point fingers, because it is difficult for me to blame victims. Shawn Carter, Tupac Shakur and most all American rappers born during the post civil rights period of American history are victims of racism and or the effects of human ignorance we call racism. I am not excusing their anti-behavior social behavior, I am merely understanding, from my point of view, what caused me and a community of mostly peaceful people to fear young Shawn Carter and his gang of poison merchants, as well as his rivals who used their own “Mack-Milli” semi-auto firearms to protect their drug operations.

However, from my point of view there comes a time when American people should be learning valuable lessons from their elders and neighbors.

Ms. Toya Graham grew up witnessing her neighbor’s struggle, yet she choose to introduce her children to the same struggles she witnessed other single moms and their children experience.

With all due respect to Ms. Graham, she is no hero. Ms. Graham is partly responsible for creating living conditions that lead children to grow up depressed and wanting to vent their anger on anyone who is NOT their mother.

Ms. Graham was an extremely immature young woman who irresponsibly built a family she introduced to a life of hardship and struggle that lead to her teen son and his classmates to attempt causing grave harm or death to Average Joe blue Americans.

As a former blue American who regularly witnessed the sadness and grief many kids experience when raised by immature females, I am sorry to say I have little love or respect for Ms. Toya Graham and the thousands of moms across our nation much like her. Ms. Graham’s immaturity caused me and entire communities of mostly peaceful people to fear for our safety and lives.

To Ms. Graham’s credit she recognizes the police have a tough job dealing with all the madness her immature, irresponsible sisters create for communities and the police trying to protect communities.

However, there are many Americans blaming police for being brutal when dealing with depressed, angry, unpredictable, frustrated, sometimes suicidal teens and adults who vent their emotions on authority figures instead of the people who introduced them to a life of pain and struggle. Many victims of child abuse are in denial, declining to blame their own moms, instead choosing to blame the cops because they are an easy target.

Anyone familiar with the recent NYTimes article about the rise in suicide Americans of African descent are experiencing?

Imagine your the Average Joe American kid like myself who experienced a fairly happy, safe child and young adulthood in a community populated by fairly happy kids and adults.

Then picture yourself spending significant amounts of time working in a community where many kids and their caregivers are depressed and/or just don’t give a frig about anyone else.

Would this unhealthy environment cause you to experience concerns for your physical safety, possibly affecting the compassion and empathy most of us beginning at a young age are imbued with through love and/or discipline?

I am not making excuses for cops who overreact, just offering reasons why some humans, aka police officers, much like Ms. Toya Graham’s son, succumb to The Street mentality prevalent in many American communities. The mantra for The Street mentality is “Survival of The Fittest.”

Frankly, I become peeved when I listen to leaders, pundits and many of my American neighbors blame police who are being forced to deal with the consequences of a serious social problem that has been harming children for decades.

A social problem of Child Abuse and Neglect that often causes police to experience grave concerns for their personal safety when interacting with teens and adults who experienced an abusive childhood. Abusive includes being raised by a single-mom and or non-existent dad who Kendrick Lamar describes as “living wild” parents.

I become even more upset when I hear terms like “White Privilege” being tossed about, inciting more division among us. The people who use this term are exploiting the depression of Americans who are in denial. Americans wanting to blame anyone but their own single-moms or parents for introducing them to a life of struggle and hardship.

Do you know what I also find upsetting? Unlike when I was a kid tuning into music that mostly expressed peace and love, making me smile and boogie, ten-year-old kids today tune into sounds of hate and anger, sounds that include characterizing our moms, sisters, grandmas, daughters and aunts as witches and bhores or less than human…much like the greedy early Americans characterized the African people they abducted, enslaved and treated less than human.

For decades American teens and men have been directly or indirectly writing/rapping about the child abuse they suffered or witnessed, yet our leaders from all parties do nothing to ease the pain by addressing the small population of American mothers of African descent who are harming their children and communities by building families before acquiring the skills, PATIENCE and means to raise fairly happy Average Joe and Josie kids playing in safe neighborhoods. Safe neighborhoods that when mom admonishes them to be careful in the street they know she is telling them to watch out for cars, not depressed neighbors who sell poison or harm their neighbors while acquiring funds to purchase poison.

Responsibly raise fairly happy kids and there will be little need for police to have concerns for their personal safety.

I implore my American neighbors from coast to coast to actively and loudly shun those who want you to believe ‘blue me’ and a majority of our American neighbors do not want us to become a nation of peaceful people….you know who they are, they are the leaders with large voices that are extremely unwilling to criticize “their own kind.”

red-dotIf we are seriously interested in ending police brutality I’d suggest listening to this streetwise Staten Island NYer (search: Truth: Keeping It Real On Hustling And Selling Drugs!) offering his opinions for how we become peaceful people raising fairly happy Average Joe and Josie children in safe, peaceful communities.

Unlike the politicians and community leaders who have personal agendas to retain and maintain their power and money streams, this Average Joe Staten Island man has no incentive to mislead and lie to our neighbors, as our politicians do without batting an eyelash.

Victims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

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In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

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Why Are The Children and Grandchildren of My Peaceful Motown Music Friends So Darn Angry?

Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect

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Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect

Hi. I grew up during the tumultuous sixties, right along side peaceful Motown musicians who wrote and composed sounds that made me, my friends and neighbors dance and smile celebrating life.

Despite the ignorant beliefs embraced by a population of Americans born before me, their music told me, and influenced me to believe they are good people, deserving of my admiration and respect.

As I matured Stevie came along, Sly Stone visited my life, Jimi joined in too. Billy Davis Jr. was writing and composing sounds performed with the love of his life, an absolutely stunning and talented Ms. Marilyn McCoo, who as far as I was concerned had one of the best and sexiest smiles I had ever seen, and the most beautiful female voice I heard until Carly Simon came along.

All these Americans wrote or performed some of the greatest music I believe has ever been produced…and I was there to witness it all.

Gotta tell ya, I feel pretty lucky to grow up during the period of American history these mega-talented American men and women were making me smile, AND I was able to witness them share their musical magic during their prime.

My Motown friend’s music influenced and conditioned a young developing me to respect and admire them for their peacefulness and talent, loving and purchasing their music was my way of thanking them for sharing it. No doubt my life would have many fewer happy moments and smiles in it, if it were not for these talented American composers, lyricists and musicians.

Unfortunately, today, many young children and teens wake up in the morning, tuning into contemporary music stations, hearing performers rapping or singing about anti-social activities that might possible scare the heck out of them, causing them to fear these musicians and performers, not wanting to respect them because they are abhorred by the messages being conveyed in the sounds they produce.

I was about ten-years-old when I began building a music collection of 45s and record albums. It was not the lyrics that attracted me, it was the musical production that caught my ear. I could not even discern the lyrics for many bands or performers, didn’t matter cause I liked the sound of a particular voice or harmonies and the musical sounds they made.

I have a feeling children/kids today aren’t much different. Many listen to beats and rhythms they like, the lyrics being secondary or unimportant.

I have a feeling if most young people today where really listening to the lyrics, grasping their meaning, understanding the anti-social behaviors inspiring the lyrics, and how peaceful people are emotionally and physically harmed by these anti-social behaviors, they might view these performers differently then I viewed the peaceful American music makers back in my day, before women were characterized as ‘wvtches and bhvres’ or less than human creatures by many of their rap hip hop artist sons and daughters…characterizations similarly embraced by greedy willfully or genuinely ignorant Americans of our racism dominated past.

Americans of African descent who wrote and performed music during my formative years ‘conditioned’ me to believe they are no different from most all my freedom loving American neighbors. As far as I was concerned they are cool, talented people I would like to meet and/or watch perform.

Looking at today’s music, some of it dressed up with music samplings composed by my talented Motown friends to make it sound pretty, I am not seeing the same love for women or respect for other people my Motown friends wrote about in their music.

In fact, today when I read the lyrics written and performed by many of my Motown friend’s children and grandchildren, I cringe. What happened?

Why are many of today’s performers characterizing females, aka our moms, sisters, grandmas, daughters and aunts, as wvtches and bhvores, or people not worthy of love and respect…totally unlike their musically talented, peaceful predecessors who adored women…THOUGH much like some or many ignorant Americans characterized African people for much of our country’s history.

Is it possible popular Americans of African descent are today writing and performing music, that in many people’s minds inspires hatred and fear, leading these listeners to believe many contemporary performers are not worthy of respect or even fit to share in the blessings of our free society?

Is it possible young children and teens listening to today’s performers are more sophisticated than I was, in that they ARE listening to the lyrics and understanding the messages of hate and social disrespect shared by many of today’s performers?

If kids are interpreting the lyrics, realizing they describe and represent anti-social behaviors harmful to individual people and entire neighborhoods, does this impact their development and beliefs?

What I would like to know, and this is a rhetorical question because I already know the answer, why are many of today’s music performers demeaning females?

I’d like to offer my theory for why many American teens and young men are not showing a lot of love and respect for women.

Early in my police career when I was assigned to the Brooklyn community Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter raps/writes about attempting destroy by selling poison to people living and working in his community, and rapping about engaging in extremely harmful anti-social behaviors designed to protect his drug operation from rival gangs in adjoining neighborhoods, a few of my training officers advised me to be prepared to experience “culture shock.”

When I asked what is meant by “culture shock,” I was told, “You’ll find out.”

I did find out what “culture shock” is, though it was not a culture of violence and harmful anti-social activities many were insinuating I would be shocked by.

The aspect of this Brooklyn, NY community that shocked me to the core was witnessing children being emotionally scarred by a “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that Kendrick Lamar raps and speaks about some twenty-five years after I first witnessed the “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that today CONTINUES emotionally damaging many developing children and their communities.

I personally witnessed the emotional trauma and physical pain a young, neglected, unsupervised, Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter is responsible for causing, and its aftermath, leaving a community populated by mostly peaceful people fearing for their safety on a 24/7 basis, which are the hours Shawn’s crew/gang were selling community harming substances.

During the twelve years I served this community I met hundreds of peaceful people who were just as shaken, upset and deeply disturbed as I was by the daily displays of violence and other anti-social activities mostly caused by teens and adults who were victims of childhood abuse and neglect.

I was lucky, at the end of my workday I could leave the community, returning to a more peaceful residential community were concerns for me and my family’s safety were significantly lower.

However, virtually all of my civilian co-workers, mostly loving, competent moms living in this community were not as fortunate. They were burdened with stresses and challenges my parents did not face to any significant degree.

The added stresses and challenges my peaceful co-workers faced was preventing their children from being negatively influenced by abused, neglected, unsupervised children being raised and nurtured by immature, “living wild” teen moms and young women who irresponsibly begin building families before they acquired the skills, maturity, PATIENCE and means to independently provide for their family of developing children.

In his 2015 Grammy award winning Rap Performance titled “I”, Kendrick Lamar writes, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

During a January 20, 2011 LAWeekly interview (Google search) Kendrick, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy award, told the interviewer:

“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

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It seems evident to me Kendrick identified the source of his depression, the roots of poverty, the child abuse/maltreatment that prevented him, his brothers, sisters, cousins, neighborhood friends and elementary and JHS classmates from enjoying a fairly happy safe Average Joe and Josie American kid childhood.

Seems the adults responsible for raising the children in Kendrick’s immediate and extended family placed obstacles in their children’s way, causing their kids to deal with challenges and stresses young minds are not prepared to deal with…nor should they or any other children be exposed to and have to deal with.

It seems evident to me these PARENTAL INTRODUCED obstacles and challenges cause some developing children’s minds to become tormented and go haywire, not knowing OR NOT CARING ABOUT right from wrong…because as the mature, young victims of child abuse realize their parents introduced them to a life of pain and struggle, totally unlike the mostly safe, happy life the media showed them many American kids were enjoying. RESENTMENT

I cannot speak for anyone else, but if I was raised in Kendrick’s family I would most likely be silently peeved at my parents. particularly my mom who had the final say on whether or not I was born, for being immature, irresponsible “living wild” adults who deprived me, my sisters and brothers of experiencing a safe, fairly happy Average Joe or Josie American kid childhood.

Though like many victims of child abuse, most likely I would deny my parents harmed me, wishing to deny I was a victim of parental abuse and maltreatment, and seeking to blame others for the emotional pain and struggle my parents caused to me.

In short, this is my theory for why many of today’s music performers write lyrics characterizing women much the same way some or many ignorant racist Americans characterized my peaceful Motown friends and generations of their parents and grandparents.

In other writings I share my theory for why well intentioned social programs of the 60s designed to help an emotionally depressed population of Americans harmed by human ignorance known as racism lead to a new struggle for Americans of African descent to contend with.

The new struggle faced by children born to depressed people reeling from the pain of racism is systemic child abuse and neglect.

Children like Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter (born in 1969) and Tupac Shakur (born in 1971) Jonathan “Lil Jon” Smith (born January 17, 1971), Calvin “Snoop Dogg” Cordozar Broadus Jr.(born October 20, 1971) Snoop Dogg and O’Shea “Ice Cube” Jackson, Sr. (born June 15, 1969) are all EARLY victims of the horrific child abuse resulting from well intentioned social programs of the 60s. Each of these men are victims emotional child abuse and neglect Kendrick Lamar raps and clearly speaks about decades after these older men were born.

I wish I could stop writing here, though at the moment I too am experiencing pain and need to express it in my writings, much the way lyricists and music performers express their frustrations and emotional turmoil in their music.

The pain I am experiencing is from listening to older Americans who were victims of accepted systemic racism once prevalent in our country, continuing to express their pain and outrage at how their moms and dads were treated during the hundreds of years American people of African descent were oppressed.

I understand why these older people continue to live with the pain of racism that prevented them from fully enjoying their pursuit of Life, Liberty and Happiness many of their racist minded oppressors were experiencing during that period of American history.

The anger I am currently experiencing is not directed at American people rightfully and justifiably peeved for being oppressed and treated as less than human.

My anger is focused on Americans who willfully choose to fan the flames of racism while willfully ignoring the issue of systemic child abuse/neglect that today is harming thousands of developing children in communities all across our still developing nation of mostly peaceful people.

When Hillary Rodham Clinton steps up to her presidential aspiring podium and speaks about “White Privilege” continuing to oppress the children and grandchildren of my Motown friends I became livid.

I ask myself how can this educated American citizen who attended one of the finest learning institutions in our land, a school attended by many “PRIVILEGED” and silver spoon raised American people, ignore the child abuse that for decades has been harming many of the children and grandchildren of the Motown musicians I am assuming she admired during her formative years when Motown music was in its infancy?

I know why Mrs. Clinton spews her nonsense, and this is not a theory.

Mrs. Clinton has chosen to exploit the pain and emotional damage experienced by a depressed population of Americans still dealing with the effects of hundreds of years of human ignorance known as racism.

In my mind I have NO doubts Mrs. Hillary Clinton has NO interest in helping heal ALL my American brothers and sisters.

Mrs. Hillary Clinton’s one and only goal is to at any price, further her narcissistic dream of becoming a world leader…and she has chosen to do so by openly and actively perpetuating racial division among American people she wishes to lead.

Frankly, in my heart I believe Mrs. Hillary Rodham Clinton is a sneaky, untrustworthy human being who offers word of division, though says NOTHING about healing and unity which I believe is what 95% of all Americans want to experience in their lifetime.

I was a kid in the 60s learning about communism, reading and listening to news reports of governments oppressing people and running people’s lives. My president was assassinated, in school I was being trained to seek cover when the air raid siren sounded. We were becoming involved in a war (supposedly) fighting communism, a war that could see me being trained to kill people living thousands of miles from my homeland. My most favored older cousin was ordered to Vietnam where he died. Gotta tell ya, it was not all fun and games for a kids growing up in the 60s.

However, it was not all gloom and doom.

Listening to the messages of peace, love and unity being shared by my Motown friends, I had hippie inspired dreams that in my lifetime we would actually live as one American people, each of us enjoying the freedoms envisioned and inspired by the imperfect creators of our “All Men Are Created Equal” society.

Though years later when I personally observed the real-life consequences of well intentioned social programs, and how those programs lead depressed people to building families before they acquired the skills and means to care for their children, I realized my dreams of peace and unity were being jeopardized, impeded by understandably angry and depressed American people peeved at being thought of and treated as less than human.

Witnessing abused and neglected kids like Shawn JayZ Carter “living wild” and harming his peaceful neighbors made me realize that my dream of peace and unity among all my neighbors would not be achieved in my lifetime.

I’ve become more morose knowing there are populations of Americans who ignorantly support Hillary Rodham Clinton’s dream of becoming a leader, while much like her, ignoring the the national epidemic of child abuse harming and preventing young children from experiencing a safe, fairly happy American childhood.

My sadness is compounded knowing many Americans wishing to ignore our national child abuse epidemic, are actively continuing to promote racism as the primary reason for American children of African descent continuing to struggle with poverty and bigotry, is based on their selfish desire to $profit$ from perpetuating their misguided selfish beliefs.

Some of these selfish American people who desperately want to continue promoting racism and bigotry, profit by accumulating cash and personal economic wealth, while others are seeking notoriety and acclaim, while a few are venting decades of simmering anger in the books they write for people to $purchase$.

Folks, racism is rooted in human $greed$. In a nutshell, centuries ago racism was created and perpetuated by sincerely or willfully ignorant humans wanting to exploit free labor which lead to them accumulating more wealth.

In the early seventeenth century when human greed birthed American racism that oppressed, emotionally and physically damaged human beings who helped build our country, a small population of Americans profited from the racism they created.

Today, the seventeenth century human greed which is no different in the twenty first century than it was during the less enlightened period of American history, continues to play a vital role for Americans wishing to perpetuate racism for their own selfish reasons.

Some perpetuate racism because it sells their books, others because it feeds their egos when asked to speak their mind before a (for profit) television audience about social conditions, others because they continue feeling emotional pain caused by centuries of being treated less than equal or thought of as inhuman…

Then there are people like Hillary Rodham Clinton, a supposedly strong independent woman who marries a man I watched defend an American politician who choose to join the Klan to further his political ambitions…a man who while President of The United States humiliated her and her daughter in front of the entire world by having sex with an WH intern their daughter’s age and then lying to the American public about his affair with the young intern.

Based on my non-religious values of love and respect (truthfulness=respect) for all my peaceful fellow human beings inhabiting our tiny blue orb, in my opinion neither one of these wealthy American politicians qualify as role models for the children of our country.

For more than a decade, day after working day I witnessed poverty first hand.

Vicariously, I’ve felt the painful effects of poverty every time I interviewed a victim of anti-social behaviors that depressed, frustrated, angry, neglected, unloved, unsupervised children share with their peaceful neighbors.

I felt the effects of pain caused by poverty when me, they guy trying to help my fellow NY neighbors live a peaceful life, encountered the hate, anger and frustrations of depressed teens and adults who viewed me, a blue American, as man trying to oppress them. When in reality I was placing my own physical safety and peaceful mental health at risk while trying to protect the same people who are hating me.

I am not happy knowing our human past is filled with greed that perpetuated ignorance leading to slavery, that treated the ancestors of my Motown friends as property. Nope, I am not happy at all with our ignorant forefathers.

However, dwelling on our past human ignorance is impeding our progress toward our future as a nation of peaceful people who proudly raise and nurture generations of fairly happy Average Joe and Josie American kids.

Recently, I listened to a popular early evening Fox News entertainer/commentator state we will never end racism, there will always be pockets of it.

I strongly disagree with this man. It may take some time, though perhaps expanding the definitions for our child protection laws, using developing technologies to monitor kids in crisis, and most importantly beginning a national campaign focused on redeveloping PRIDE IN PARENTING peaceful children, will help eliminate the concerns or fear many humans develop when they listen to popular music artists rap and write about the child abuse they were victimized by that caused them to become depressed and angry. Resulting in mass incarcerations that would not occur if more prospective moms and dads took PRIDE IN PARENTING.

Here’s the hippie in me. I realize the emotional pain caused by legal racism of our past is real and palpable for many Americans, including my Motown friends who to this day continue to thrill and make me smile listening the sounds they created many moons ago.

Through their music my dear friends offered me and our world a glimpse of forgiveness for the human torture they unnecessarily suffered. Despite being forcibly removed from their homeland and being subjected to inhuman atrocities for more than a dozen generations, my talented friends wrote music expressing love peace and unity. Perhaps some are not impressed with my Motown’s friend’s civility, but I was and remained impressed today.

Instead of talking about the emotional pain caused by our ignorant past, how about we focus on the pride we should experience when taking on the enormous challenge of raising and guiding our kids to thrive and succeed in a increasingly competitive society, while insuring our children experience a safe, fairly happy Average Joe and Josie American kid life.

 Victims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

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In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

First African-American to join NYPD suffered the silent hatred of his fellow officers | Sports, Hip Hop & Piff – The Coli

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Samuel Battle gets kiss in 1941 from 4-year-old granddaughter Yvonne.

via First African-American to join NYPD suffered the silent hatred of his fellow officers | Sports, Hip Hop & Piff – The Coli.

Hi. Early in my police career when I was assigned to the Brooklyn community Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter raps/writes about attempting destroy by selling poison to people living and working in his community, and rapping about engaging in extremely harmful anti-social behaviors designed to protect his drug operation from rival gangs in adjoining neighborhoods, a few of my training officers advised me to be prepared to experience “culture shock.”

When I asked what is meant by “culture shock,” I was told, “You’ll find out.”

I did find out what “culture shock” is, though it was not a culture of violence and harmful anti-social activities many were insinuating I would be shocked by.

The aspect of this Brooklyn, NY community that shocked me to the core was witnessing children being emotionally scarred by a “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that Kendrick Lamar raps and speaks about some twenty-five years after I first witnessed the “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that today CONTINUES emotionally damaging many developing children and their communities.

I personally witnessed the emotional trauma and physical pain a young, neglected, unsupervised, Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter is responsible for causing, and its aftermath, leaving a community populated by mostly peaceful people fearing for their safety on a 24/7 basis, which are the hours Shawn’s crew/gang were selling community harming substances.

During the twelve years I served this community I met hundreds of peaceful people who were just as shaken, upset and deeply disturbed as I was by the daily displays of violence and other anti-social activities mostly caused by teens and adults who were victims of childhood abuse and neglect.

I was lucky, at the end of my workday I could leave the community, returning to a more peaceful residential community were concerns for me and my family’s safety were significantly lower.

However, virtually all of my civilian co-workers, mostly loving, competent moms living in this community were not as fortunate. They were burdened with stresses and challenges my parents did not face to any significant degree.

The added stresses and challenges my peaceful co-workers faced was preventing their children from being negatively influenced by abused, neglected, unsupervised children being raised and nurtured by immature, “living wild” teen moms and young women who irresponsibly begin building families before they acquired the skills, maturity, PATIENCE and means to independently provide for their family of developing children.

In his 2015 Grammy award winning Rap Performance titled “I”, Kendrick Lamar writes, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

During a January 20, 2011 LAWeekly interview (Google search) Kendrick, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy award, told the interviewer:

“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

It seems evident to me Kendrick identified the source of his depression, the roots of poverty, the child abuse/maltreatment that prevented him, his brothers, sisters, cousins, neighborhood friends and elementary and JHS classmates from enjoying a fairly happy safe childhood.

Seems the adults responsible for raising the children in Kendrick’s immediate and extended family placed obstacles in their children’s way, causing their kids to deal with challenges and stresses young minds are not prepared to deal with…nor should they or any other children be exposed to and have to deal with.

It seems evident to me these PARENTAL INTRODUCED obstacles and challenges cause some developing children’s minds to become tormented and go haywire, not knowing OR NOT CARING ABOUT right from wrong…because as they mature, young victims of child abuse realize their parents introduced them to a life of pain and struggle, totally unlike the mostly safe, happy life the media showed them many American kids were enjoying. RESENTMENT

I cannot speak for anyone else, but if I was raised in Kendrick’s family I would most likely be silently peeved at my parents. particularly my mom who had the final say on whether or not I was born, for being immature, irresponsible “living wild” adults who deprived me, my sisters and brothers of experiencing a safe, fairly happy Average Joe or Josie American childhood.

I have a feeling Officer Sam Battle would have been just as shaken and disturbed as I was when witnessing on a daily basis children and teens being abused, neglected and unsupervised, which often resulted with them venting their anger and frustrations on their peaceful neighbors.


Take Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect; End Community Violence & Police Fear

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Victims of Child Abuse:

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/05/01/black-child-abuse/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/brooklyn-ny-newborn-raised-to-be-a-baddd-boy/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/brooklyns-boom-box-mom/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/victim-of-abuse/

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

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In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”


#TakePrideInParenting
#EndChildAbuseNeglect
#ProtectKidsFromIrresponsibleCaregivers

NAACP Makes Stunning Demand: Take Those Faces Off That Mountain

Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect

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I agree with the members of the Atlanta NAACP Chapter. All our historic confederacy related monuments should be destroyed…..

…and replaced with the names or likeness of today’s Americans who are victims of horrific CHILD ABUSE, NEGLECT, and MALTREATMENT at the hands immature moms and or dads who selfishly and irresponsibly introduce newborns, infants, toddlers, children and teens to a life of pain and hardship.

Kendrick Lamar, born in 1987, won a 2015 Grammy for rapping out the depression he’s experienced since he was an adolescent.

In a January 2011 LAWeekly interview Kendrick speaks about being SIX-YEARS-OLD and witnessing drug deals in front of his apartment. He talks about his ‘living wild” parents who deprived him of experiencing an “Average Joe” American kid childhood.

Then there is Tupac, born in 1971, who raps about his severe childhood depression, “I wake up in the morning and I ask myself – Is life worth livin’ should I blast myself? – I’m tired of bein poor and even worse I’m black – My stomach hurts so I’m lookin’ for a purse to snatch”

Read Tupac ‘Dear Mama’ rap to learn about his love-hate relationship with his substance abusing mom, and his hatred toward his dad. Does he deserve to be an honored Victim of American Child Abuse?

Let’s not forget about Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter, born in 1969, another victim of child neglect whose mother allowed a young Shawn to run wild on the streets of Brooklyn, NY, causing fear and emotional or physical harm to every peaceful person living or working in the Marcy Houses and surrounding neighborhoods.

Since Tupac raps about his mom being harmed by drugs, thereby depriving him of experiencing a safe, fairly happy childhood, and Shawn Jay Z Carter raps about selling drugs to people like Tupac’s mom, should these two victims of child abuse and neglect have their images placed side by side on Stone Mountain State Park, smiling at one another?

Is there room on Stone Mountain State Park to add a likeness of Baltimore Mom of The Year Toya Graham, who builds a large family she introduced to struggle and hardships, instead of being more responsible and having one or two children she could more easily care, provide for and supervise?

I am not trying to be a wiseguy. Frankly, I am totally disappointed with many of my American neighbors who are WILLFULLY ignoring America’s National Epidemic of Child Abuse & Neglect that over the last three decades we have all witnessed threaten and harm many American children’s lives, depriving untold numbers of children from experiencing a safe, fairly happy American kid childhood.

I understand why the confederate flag flying over government buildings was way out of line. For a substantial number of peaceful Americans it is a symbol of American oppression and greed that maliciously harmed and exploited many generations peaceful people.

However, erasing all the symbols of our past human ignorance does a disservice to future Americans who will become part of our ever-evolving human society.

I would argue raising children in loving homes that encourage children to learn about our world, and how we have evolved and continue to evolve as a species. Educating our kids about the atrocities of our past, using them as lessons learned for moving into our more peaceful future.

Growing up in the 60s, I quickly became friends with Motown musicians whose music conditioned me to believe they are peaceful, generous, loving, talented Americans deserving of my respect and admiration. Every one of my Motown friends wrote music loving, respecting or honoring the maternal half of our population.

Today when ten-year-old American kids wake up for school, they tune their radio’s into popular music written and performed by the children and grandchildren of my Motown friends who have a different view of the maternal half of our human population.

I’m fairly certain most Americans with common sense realize why many of the children and grandchildren of Motown musicians, for the past thirty years characterize females in their rap art performances, our moms sisters, grandmas, daughters and aunts, as *itches and *hores, or less than human not deserving of respect.

I respectfully ask all members of the Atlanta Chapter For The NAACP begin a national campaign to raise awareness and educate children, teens and adults about all forms of Child Abuse and Neglect that harm developing children and communities.

Avery

#RestorePrideInParenting
#EndChildAbuseNeglect

Victims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

knutesniche.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/shawn-jayz-carter-brooklyns-finest.png

In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

Nicki Minaj Hurt By ‘The View’ Criticism | Black America Web

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“Nicki Minaj Hurt By ‘The View’ Criticism, Wants To Be Seen For Her Smarts”

Sub: “Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect”

Onika “Nicki Minaj” Tanya Maraj (born December 8, 1982) , is a very attractive woman, until she opens her mouth and begins sharing her American rap artistry that includes lyrics characterizing and demeaning females as witches and bhores, essentially less than human creatures not deserving of respect. Which is pretty much the same way greedy early Americans characterized the African people they abducted and enslaved.

As a kid in the 60s, when I woke up in the morning I tuned in radio stations playing Motown music that celebrated and respected women, as well as life. My Motown friends wrote beautiful music that told me and ‘conditioned’ me to believe they were/are peaceful loving, talented people, deserving of my respect.

Today when grade school kids wake up they tune into popular music artists offering sounds of hate and disrespect. Last time I looked a Bvtch is an animal, or inhuman creature.

What subliminal messages are today’s youngsters learning when they hear American of African descent characterizing women, aka our moms, sisters, grandmas, daughters and aunts, as inhuman bvtches, not worthy of respect?

FLOTUS at an event titled Black Girls Rock, rubs elbows with Jennifer Hudson who $collaborates$ with Iggy Azalea, a rapper who in her performances characterizes females as witches and bhores.

Wendy Williams invites Taraji P. Henson on her show where both emphatically proclaim their love for a rapper named, Armando “Pitbull” Christian Pérez (born January 15, 1981).

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In his very first rap performance titled “305 Anthem”, guess how Mr. Pitbull characterizes females, aka our moms, sisters, grandmas, daughters and aunts?

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Frankly, if I was a kid growing up today, listening to the nastiness and disrespect being written and shared by many nationally popular Americans of African descent, I probably would not have much respect for them.

I might even be “conditioned” to think many are messed up people who I would shun because I would not want my kids rubbing elbows with children being raised to disrespect our population of maternal caregivers.

Of course the OBVIOUS question NO ONE wants to ask is, “Why are the children and grandchildren of my peaceful, loving Motown friends, characterizing females as witches and bhores?”

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/08/30/when-why-did-our-moms-become-less-than-human/

A source close to Minaj told Dish Nation, “She’s an intelligent businesswoman.”

Do you agree with his unnamed source?

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Victims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

knutesniche.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/shawn-jayz-carter-brooklyns-finest.png

In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

President Obama Calls Supreme Court Ruling For Nationwide Marriage Equality “A Victory For America” – BuzzFeed News

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Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.”

I am a non-believer who believes Americans ignoring these words declaring freedom and the pursuit of happiness are unalienable rights granted to all peaceful people, are Americans who do not believe in freedom, happiness and independence.

An adult’s sexual preference is none of my business. I support responsible, loving adults who take Pride In Parenting by raising and nurturing peaceful children to experience a safe, fairly happy Average Joe or Josie American kid childhood.

Will my president now have time to focus on child abuse and neglect that causes kids to grow up depressed, often deflecting their frustrations and anger on their peaceful neighbors instead of the people causing their anger and resentment?

In his 2015 Grammy award winning rap performance, “I”, American Rap Performance Artist Kendrick Lamar reveals, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

During a January 20, 2011 LAWeekly interview (Google search) Kendrick, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy award, he told the interviewer:

“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

Victims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

knutesniche.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/shawn-jayz-carter-brooklyns-finest.png

In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

Police bought Dylann Storm Roof Burger King after arrest – Salon.com

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Feeding a hungry person.

I was a Brooklyn, NY uniform cop and investigator during the period of American history when Shawn JayZ Carter raps about selling poison to his neighbors and describes other anti-social activities he engaged in that caused peaceful people in his neighborhood to fear for their personal and family’s safety 24/7.

When I arrested a person, depending on the situation, after cuffing them, I almost always informed my prisoner, “My friend, act like a gentleman, and you’ll be treated like a gentleman (or lady).”

This promise/admonishment included purchasing a soda, chips, or other nourishment that was within reason. If my prisoner acted like a gentleman or lady, I had no problem making a trip to the fast food restaurant across from the Brooklyn booking facility on Tillary St. Sometimes they paid, sometimes I paid.

Not really a biggie to my wallet because I was usually on overtime when processing a prisoner.

There are many reason I purchased food for prisoners, one reason was to show them I am human too.

Though the most important reason was that I viewed each civilian I came in contact with, arrested or not, as a potential wealth of information I might be offered access to if I treated the person the way I expected to be treated by another person, with respect.

It did not matter if I chased him or her for a few blocks and ended up using physical force to defend myself while capturing my prisoner, it did not matter if they were an alleged rapist of children, or mass murderer.

It was not my job to punish or shame a prisoner, it was my job to gather intelligence info that could help solve criminal cases. Whether or not I detested the acts he or she was alleged to have committed, whether or not I liked the person I arrested, treating a person with respect is the first step toward gaining their trust and giving them a reason to open up about activities they have knowledge. They may not open up immediately, but sometime in the future if they need to talk to a cop, they know they can trust me to treat them fairly.

Plus, in police work sometimes cops finds comfort in the small things, like arresting a person who tried to harm me and expressed a hatred for me, yet a few hours later when I am lodging him in a cell prior to arraignment, he is now thanking me for being cool and treating him with respect.

Another thing that inspired me to feed my prisoner, was knowing many of the people I arrested were victims of horrific child abuse who often were not fed or shown respect by their parents or caregivers.

I often hated the harmful anti-social acts my teen and adult prisoners committed against their peaceful neighbors.

Though my anger was tempered by day after day of witnessing the child abuse and neglect many kids who mature into depressed adults had to deal with, I understood why their brains were corrupted and they lacked empathy and compassion for their peaceful neighbors.

Feeding a hungry belly, offering respect to a person who feels disrespected by everyone, including their caregivers, was my way of coping with the emotional trauma I experienced from witnessing much of the horrible human drama I regularly encountered. It kept me feeling human in a community plagued by inhumanity toward developing children.

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

Charles Blow: In Charleston, a millennial race terrorist | National columnists | Kentucky.com

 Charles Blow: In Charleston, a millennial race terrorist

June 22, 2015

red-dotCharles Blow asks important questions, “Who radicalized Roof? Who passed along the poison? We must never be lulled into a false belief that racism is dying off with older people.”

http://www.kentucky.com/2015/06/22/3912721_charles-blow-in-charleston-a-millennial.html

Hi. Perhaps I am being naively simplistic, however, I am thinking if more people, in particular single females, begin to responsibly raise children who are fairly happy kids, maturing into teens and adults who DO NOT flood popular music with lyrics depicting hate, disrespect, violence, poison drug sales, and very little respect for females who more often than not, are characterized as witches and bhoers, or less than human, undeserving of respect, much like the ignorant Americans of our past who embraced the human ignorance we call racism…

…I’m thinking if fuel was not being fed to the fire, the fire will extinguish itself.

People won’t hate on people they do not fear. Removing the reason for fear, ends the hate. Again, I am probably being extremely simplistic asking my fellow humans to recognize a majority of human beings become fearful when they hear people acting crazy and promoting hate.

Sadly many human will stereotype, believing an entire population is responsible for craziness when they nurture children who rap and write about harming peaceful people in the communities they live in.

What really makes me sad are people who write to incite, for notoriety and profit, without a hint of wanting to learn the core reason for why many kids are so angry.

Their writings rarely include finding real solutions so kids no longer experience depression causing them to characterize their moms, sisters, grandmas and aunts as less than human witches and bhores, much like some or many ignorant Americans characterized African hostages of early American slavery.

Lucky for me, I grew up with Motown musicians who wrote and composed sounds that made me, my friends and neighbors dance and smile. Their music told me, and influenced me, to believe they are good people, deserving of my admiration and respect. As I matured Stevie came along, Sly Stone visited my life, Jimi came along too. All these men wrote and performed some of the greatest peaceful music filled with love that has ever been ever produced, and I was there to witness it all.

Gotta tell ya, I feel pretty lucky to grow up during the period of American history these mega-talented American men and women were making me smile, AND I was able to witness them share their musical magic during their prime.

Their music influenced and conditioned a young, developing me to respect and admire them for their peacefulness and talent, loving and purchasing their music was my way of thanking them for sharing it. No doubt my life would have many fewer happy moments and smiles in it, if it were not for these talented American composers, lyricists and musicians.

Unfortunately, young people today, they wake up in the morning, tuning into contemporary music stations, hearing performers rapping or singing about anti-social activities that might possible scare the heck out of them, causing them to fear these musicians and performers, not wanting to respect them because they are abhorred by the messages being conveyed in the sounds they produce.

I was about ten-years-old when I began building a music collection of 45s and record albums. It was not the lyrics that attracted me, it was the musical production that caught my ear. I could not even discern the lyrics for many bands or performers, didn’t matter cause I liked the sound of a particular voice or harmonies and the musical sounds they made.

I have a feeling kids today aren’t much different. They listen to beats and rhythms they like, the lyrics being secondary or unimportant.

I have a feeling if most young people where really listening to the lyrics, grasping their meaning, understanding the anti-social behaviors inspiring the lyrics, and how peaceful people are emotionally and physically harmed by these anti-social behaviors, they might view these performers differently then I viewed the peaceful American music makers back in my day, before women were characterized as less than human creatures by many of their rap hip hop artist sons and daughters.

Americans of African descent who wrote and performed music during my formative years ‘conditioned’ me to believe they are no different from most all freedom loving Americans. As far as I was concerned they are cool, talented people I would like to meet and/or watch perform.

Is it possible popular Americans of African descent, today are writing and performing music that in many people’s minds inspires hatred and fear, leading these people to believe the performers are not worthy of respect or even fit to share in the blessings of our free society?

Considering the size of our population and the number of kids from every single American community who grow up feeling unloved or emotionally abandon by their parent(s), kids who suffer abuse, neglect and maltreatment during a period in their lives when they MOST need attention and guidance, I am not surprised when some of these kids vent in a violent fashion.

Another thing that does not surprise me is the silence I witness when I ask people why all Motown music artists wrote beautiful music praising and adoring women, yet many of today’s popular and aspiring music performers really do not inspire much love or respect for our moms, sisters, grandmas daughter and aunts.

Right now I am thankful the overwhelming majority of my American neighbors simply want to live peaceful lives, raising peaceful children who further aide our species toward following the footsteps of the outside intelligence that seeded us here a million years ago to study our development, or perhaps wager whether or not we evolve into a intelligent, peaceful life form. 🙂

I’d wager we can, well before the next asteroid strike has us following the footsteps of Dino, Fred and family.

Victims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

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In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again

Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

http://www.kidsmatterinc.org/for-families/abuse-and-neglect-resources/emotional-abuse

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/dr-joy-degruy-addresses-black-depression-violence-and-healing/

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers-and-errant-asteroids

Why Is Hillary Rodham Clinton Harming The American Composers and Performers She Once Loved?

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Why Does Hillary Clinton Ignore Child Abuse
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The Parents Or Caretakers Who Abuse Children??

yellow-horizontalMrs. Hillary Clinton unabashedly stated to the American public, “For a lot of well-meaning, open-minded white people, the sight of a young black man in a hoodie still evokes a twinge of fear.”

Mrs. Clinton, in his 2015 Grammy award winning rap performance, “I”, American Rap Performance Artist Kendrick Lamar reveals, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

In a January 20, 2011 LAWeekly interview (Google search), American rapper and Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy award, he told the interviewer:

“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

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https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/22/victims-of-horrific-child-abuse-young-american-kendrick-lamar-boldly-speaks-about-child-abuse-the-seeds-of-poverty-and-crime/

Mrs. Clinton, it seems to me Kendrick identified the source of his depression, the roots of poverty, the child abuse/maltreatment that prevented him, his brothers, sisters, cousins, neighborhood friends and school classmates from enjoying a fairly happy safe childhood.

Mrs. Clinton, it seems the adults responsible for raising the children in Kendrick’s immediate and extended family placed obstacles in their children’s way, causing their kids to deal with challenges and stresses young minds are not prepared to deal with…nor should they or any other children be exposed to and have to deal with

Mrs. Clinton, do you, or do you not believe some or many developing elementary and JHS children exposed to this type of horrific child abuse may become confused not knowing OR NOT CARING ABOUT right from wrong?

Mrs. Clinton, as they mature do you believe, do some or many children realize their parents introduced them to a life of pain and struggle, totally unlike the mostly safe, happy life the media shows them many American kids are enjoying?

Mrs, Clinton are you familiar with the terms, “anger, frustration and resentment?”

Mrs. Clinton, after reading Kendrick describe his childhood upbringing, do you wonder how little Kendrick and his classmates reacted when their elementary school teacher introduced the DARE presenter and they learned about the real dangers of drugs and how they harm people, including their parents? Cognitive Dissonance

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If the January 20, 2011 interview hasn’t opened your eyes, try reading the October 25, 2012 LAWeekly (Google search) interview in which Kendrick clearly states he was a SIX-YEAR-OLD CHILD when his mom subjected him to emotional abuse/neglect, torment and great disappointment.

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Mrs. Clinton, Kendrick Lamar has taken a bold first step by revealing to his family, friends, fans, admirers and the American public, the depression he experienced DUE TO his mom making extremely poor choices that deprived his brothers and sisters of experiencing a safe, somewhat happy American childhood.

Mrs. Clinton, reading Kendrick’s background, do you feel horrible for a grade school child who can’t depend on his mom to be there for him, a mom who exposes him to things kids should not have to witness and deal with in their young minds.

I admire Kendrick’s honesty when revealing the child abuse he was/is tormented by.

However, Mrs. Clinton, honestly, at this moment I have little respect for you and other educated Americans with larger voices than Kendrick’s, who blatantly ignore Kendrick and the thousands of American children much like him who are victims of horrific child abuse at the hands of their caretakers.

Caretakers, who in my personal experience during the nearly dozen years I provided police services to a Brooklyn, NY community, are mostly young single teens and women who irresponsibly build families before acquiring practical skills, PATIENCE, maturity and the means to independently care for their children.

Mrs. Clinton, are you aware that Mr. Tavis Smiley’s mom was eighteen-years-old when she began building her family of ten children?

Mrs. Clinton are you aware that according to Tavis, his NINE brothers and sisters to this day still struggle with poverty, and that Tavis is the only one of ten kids in his family to enjoy a prosperous American life?

Mrs. Hillary Clinton, do you have any doubts that as he matured, young Tavis regularly questioned the choices his mother made for him, his brothers and sisters? SILENT RESENTMENT

Mrs. Clinton, I’ve witnessed depressed children angrily lash out at their moms for ignoring them, not feeding them, forcing them to resort to anti-social behaviors that resulted with them being arrested, or suffering grievous physical injuries when they succumbed to “The Street” life Baltimore grandmother Ms. Toya Graham speaks about.

Mrs. Clinton, we all witnessed Ms. Graham’s son Michael, as well as his angry, frustrated classmates acting with depraved indifference toward human life as they attempted to cause grave harm to police charged with protecting peaceful people from angry depressed, frustrated teens who often cause emotional trauma and physical pain to peaceful people.

Mrs. Clinton, were you one of many Americans who lauded Ms. Graham for taking disciplinary action, yet failed to consider why her son Michael and his schoolmates were/are filled with so much anger and rage, they were attempting to gravely injure or murder the people who protect their peaceful neighbors and community?

Mrs. Clinton, why do you fail to recognize these depressed kids are filled with resentment toward the people who introduced them and their siblings to a life of pain, hardship and struggle?

In 1987, the year Kendrick Lamar was born, Suzanne Vega wrote a Grammy nominated song about child abuse, describing how if questioned, a victim will deny he was abused, suggesting“And it’s not your business anyway”

Mrs. Clinton, do you believe it is possible there are many adult victims of childhood abuse who deny childhood abuse, or keep it tucked away not wanting to remember the pain they experienced?

Mrs. Clinton, do you understand why most adult victim’s of early child abuse, excluding Kendrick Lamar and Tupac Shakur, are reluctant to blame their parents, instead venting their anger and frustrations on the authority figures many of their elders and community leaders tell them are responsible for their hardship and struggle?

Mrs. Clinton, when Motown was in its infancy you were a young teen, I was a toddler. We both grew up dancing and celebrating the music our mega-talented, peaceful Motown neighbors composed for the enjoyment of ALL Americans and people all around our tiny blue orb.

Let me ask you, Mrs. Clinton. Have you ever pondered why musicians from our early years wrote lyrics praising, adoring, loving and respecting women, while many of their children and grandchildren were/are, for the past thirty years, writing lyrics characterizing females, aka our moms, sisters, grandmas and daughters, as “wvtches and bhvres,” or essentially less than human, undeserving of respect?

Mrs. Clinton, do you not recognize well-intentioned social policies designed to help American moms and others emotionally harmed by the human ignorance known as racism, planted the seeds for another social problem that resulted with me personally witnessing kids like Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) running wild through the streets of Brooklyn, NY, causing fear, physical and/or emotional pain to virtually every peaceful person living and working in his Brooklyn community?

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/03/jay-z-raps-about-child-abuse-the-fear-and-harm-he-caused-to-peaceful-people/

Mrs. Clinton, do you feel compassion for the moms of our Motown friends who were forced to contend with the emotional effects of racism embraced for several hundred years by a significant population of ignorant Americans?

Mrs. Clinton, do you feel compassion for the daughters and granddaughters of our Motown friends who today, are forced to contend with the emotional effects of their children characterizing them as “wvtches and bhvres.” or less than human undeserving of respect…much the way the ignorant population of Americans characterized their Motown moms and dads, and their grandparents?

Mrs. Clinton do you not recognize many of today’s popular music performers are describing in their popular lyrics the child abuse/neglect they, their sisters, brothers, cousins, neighborhood friends, elementary and JHS classmates were victimized by, depriving them of an Average Joe or Josie American kid childhood?

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/08/30/when-why-did-our-moms-become-less-than-human/

Mrs. Clinton, with all due respect, I believe you and many of your highly or average educated friends and supporters recognize why the children and grandchildren of our Motown friends are disrespecting females in their popular music performances.

Mrs. Clinton, I also believe you have built a platform that assists/enables adult victims of early child abuse to continue denying they are/were victims of child abuse/neglect, thereby you are facilitating the cycle of child abuse harming kids who mature into teens acting with depraved in difference to human life by pelting cops with bricks and boulders.

Mrs. Clinton, when you ignore the child abuse many kids have suffered over the past four or five decades, in my opinion you have no interest in seeing many American moms regain the respect and love of their children.

In fact Mrs. Clinton, by ignoring the child abuse epidemic harming the psyche of our entire nation, you are not only perpetuating the victimization of children, you are doing nothing to ease the burdens of peaceful moms dealing with real life stresses and challenges, moms who everyday are stressed while trying to protect their children from being influenced by emotionally damaged kids in their schools and neighborhoods.

Mrs. Clinton, with all due respect, when you speak about “white privilege” I see an ignorant American citizen selfishly wanting to ignore the dysfunctions of some or many American moms whose support you seek.

After your “white privilege” comments I view you as a sad person wishing to incite, instead of heal…and you are inciting a population of emotionally scarred, depressed American people because you want their support. DESPICABLE

Is “white privilege” responsible for influencing American rap performers to characterize females as *itches and *hores, Mrs. Clinton?

Mrs. Clinton, sadly it appears you choose to exploit racial issues, appealing to the emotions of depressed people who are in denial about the poor choices many “living wild” young people in their communities make for their families/children’s well being.

Mrs. Clinton, depression is triggered by many factors or situations. As Kendrick boldly shared, Child Abuse can cause depression.

Do you know what also causes many peaceful people to become depressed, Mrs. Clinton?

Ask an Average Josie mom, wanting to raise peaceful happy Average Joe and Josie kids in a community populated by many “living wild” moms and/or dads raising their children in environments Kendrick describes.

Ask these loving, caring moms about the stresses and challenges they experience keeping their children from being influenced and harmed by children being raised in families fraught with emotional abuse, neglect and maltreatment.

Mrs. Clinton, do you realize by not speaking loudly, using plain English to address the epidemic of child abuse that began five decades ago, you are ignoring real life stresses and concerns that cause peaceful moms and dads to legitimately fear for their children’s emotional well being and physical safety?

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Mrs. Clinton, are you familiar with the writings and raps created by legendary American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur? (born Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996).

If not I suggest reading his lyrics, aka true life stories, to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

In his early 90s ‘That’s Just The Way It Is’ (aka Changes) Tupac raps about waking up in the morning and contemplating suicide. He raps about emotionally and physically harming his peaceful neighbors in order to survive the life of struggle, pain and hardship his dysfunctional parents introduced him to.

Mrs. Clinton, Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds from the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, Mrs. Clinton, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I tried to protect peaceful people from teens and adults dealing with the consequences of child abuse.

Mrs. Clinton, could feeling unloved and emotionally abandon by his mom inspire Tupac to write/rap about waking in the morning and contemplating suicide in a rap he titled, “That’s Just The Way It Is”?

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Perhaps immature mom’s making poor choices for their families is responsible for the rise in suicide the children and grandchildren of our Motown friends are experiencing, as recently reported by the NY Times?

Mrs. Clinton, before I close this grammatically impaired writing, for which I apologize, I have to be frank. I do not admire people who willfully fail to abide by established rules and procedures that provide for personal and public accountability.

I’ve heard and read a lot of harsh comments about your activities and character, Mrs. Clinton. Of all the comments I’ve read about your lack of character and truthfulness, the incident with the unauthorized server bolsters my opinion that you are not a quality person fit to lead my country. You do not follow the rules and you are a sneak. If you were my mom and dad’s child, they would be greatly disappointed, wondering were they failed.

I am quite sure if my folks were still around witnessing you and your supporters ignoring the obvious emotional pain many children and grandchildren of our Motown music friends have experienced since we sang along and danced to their songs of peace, love, respect understanding and unity, you would not find my folks donating to your campaign…a campaign that incites, instead of seeking to heal and unify Americans so we all prosper and have kids who experience an Average Joe or Josie American life.

Please, will someone, anyone with a larger audience than Kendrick Lamar, help Kendrick and other victims of early childhood emotional abuse and neglect actively, publicly, loudly discuss how we go about healing their pain and protecting future generations of Americans from experiencing abusive childhoods?

Or will today’s larger voices continue ignoring the voices of young people across our country who unlike their peaceful, mega-talented Motown music predecessors, write performance lyrics characterizing women “wvtches and bhvres,” essentially less than human people, not deserving of respect?

Hillary many enjoy being characterized that way, though I have a feeling there are millions of moms across our nation who feel otherwise, wanting to be respected and treated with dignity the maternal half our population deserves.

Wiki excerpt:

Rodham began a year of postgraduate study on children and medicine at the Yale Child Study Center.[50] Her first scholarly article, “Children Under the Law”, was published in the Harvard Educational Review in late 1973.[51] Discussing the new children’s rights movement, it stated that “child citizens” were “powerless individuals”[52] and argued that children should not be considered equally incompetent from birth to attaining legal age, but that instead courts should presume competence except when there is evidence otherwise, on a case-by-case basis.[53] This page was last modified on 22 June 2015, at 03:23.

yellow-horizontal“The Clinton Chronicles: Bill and Hillary Exposed” is a 1:44:00 presentation about the criminal activities the Clintons have embraced.

I watched this investigation of the Clintons thinking, “Is this really true!”

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Take Pride In Parenting; End Our National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect; End Community Violence, Police Fear & Educator’s Frustrations

American citizen offering his opinion about SINGLE-MOMS harming their children.

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Emotional Abuse

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/dr-joy-degruy-addresses-black-depression-violence-and-healing/

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Sandra Bland Indirectly Speaks About Child Abuse and Neglect Harming Her Quality of Life And Community

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Social Activist Sandra Bland

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/07/17/sandra-bland-indirectly-speaks-about-child-abuse-and-neglect-harming-her-quality-of-life-and-community/

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Victims of Child Abuse

This video depicts horrific examples of men who were victims of childhood abuse and neglect, conditioning a young teen to embrace ‘The Street’ culture Baltimore Mom of The Year failed to protect her teen son from…not to mention representing the fear peaceful people living and WORKING in the community experience knowing depressed, angry, unpredictable teens and young adults need to vent their angers and frustrations for being introduced to a life of pain and struggle by irresponsible, “living wild” single moms and/or dads.

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A little girl, catching a cool breeze from an air conditioning unit in the yard, was blindsided by another child about her same age, who had evidently had some practice with fighting fierce. The small victim wasn’t alone, as there were plenty of nearby witnesses, who could have protected her but didn’t because they were too busy recording the brutal beat down and encouraging it. | Written By Amanda Shea

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Depraved Indifference for Human Life?

What I see in this recorded act of criminal child abuse, is adults conditioning children to embrace the cycle of child abuse, child maltreatment and violence passed down from generation to generation by depressed Americans who are content living in the poverty they are primarily responsible for fueling when irresponsibly birthing children from selfishness, instead of the love between two committed adult partners.

red-dotVictims of Child Abuse – Brooklyn, NY:

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/05/01/black-child-abuse/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/brooklyn-ny-newborn-raised-to-be-a-baddd-boy/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/brooklyns-boom-box-mom/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/victim-of-abuse/

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Nationally Popular Victims of Early Childhood Abuse and Neglect

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

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In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

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Victim of America’s expanding and shameful *National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect,* aka *Poverty*, that for decades has deprived untold numbers of emotionally abused and neglected young developing children from experiencing and enjoying a safe, fairly happy American kid childhood!

#TakePrideInParenting
#EndChildAbuseNeglect
#ProtectKidsFromIrresponsibleCaregivers

Victims of Horrific Child Abuse; Young American Kendrick Lamar Boldly Speaks About Child Abuse, The Seeds of Poverty and Crime

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2015 Grammy Winner Kendrick Lamar

red-dotIn his 2015 Grammy award winning Rap Performance titled “I”, Kendrick Lamar writes, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

During a January 20, 2011 LAWeekly interview, Kendrick born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy award, he told the interviewer:

“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment.”

“My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

It seems evident to me Kendrick identified the source of his depression, the roots of poverty, the child abuse/maltreatment that prevented him, his brothers, sisters, cousins, neighborhood friends and elementary and JHS classmates from enjoying a fairly happy safe childhood.

Seems the adults responsible for raising the children in Kendrick’s immediate and extended family placed obstacles in their children’s way, causing their kids to deal with challenges and stresses young minds are not prepared to deal with…nor should they or any other children be exposed to and have to deal with.

It seems evident to me these PARENTAL INTRODUCED obstacles and challenges cause some developing children’s minds to become tormented and go haywire, not knowing OR NOT CARING ABOUT right from wrong…because as the mature, young victims of child abuse realize their parents introduced them to a life of pain and struggle, totally unlike the mostly safe, happy life the media showed them many American kids were enjoying. RESENTMENT

I cannot speak for anyone else, but if I was raised in Kendrick’s family I would most likely be silently peeved at my parents for being immature irresponsible “living wild” adults who deprived me of a safe, happy childhood.

Though like many victims of child abuse, most likely I would deny my parents harmed me, seeking to blame others for the pain my parents caused to me.

I wonder how little Kendrick and his classmates reacted when their elementary school teacher introduced the DARE presenter and they learned about the real dangers of drugs and how they harm people, including their parents? Cognitive Dissonance

In a Oct 25, 2012, LAWeekly interview Kendrick talks about being a SIX-YEAR-OLD child who was not able to trust and rely on his mom…essentially he speaks about being emotionally abandon by his own mom. Kendrick also questions the choices his “living wild” mom and dad made for their family.

Kendrick Lamar Still Feels Anger & Hatred On ‘The Blacker The Berry’ (Pt. 3) | MTV News

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Kendrick shares his experiences about feeling lonely, which if you read up on Cognitive Dissonance that Dr. Joy Degruy writes about in her book, “Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome: America’s Legacy of Enduring Injury and Healing (PTSS)”, is it perfectly understandable why Kendrick feels lonely.

Search Google “Post traumatic Disorder Dr Joy de Gruy Leary – YouTube” to watch a very disturbing yet enlightening 1:21:00 lecture about “Cognitive Dissonance” and how it harms developing kids like Kendrick. Dr. DeGruy does an excellent job describing how “CD” helped perpetuate the human ignorances we call racism and slavery.

Dr. DeGruy also describes how using our common sense, we should be able to understand how “CD” can negatively impact developing children like Kendrick Lamar (born 1987), as well as Tupac Shakur (born 1971) and Shawn ‘Jay Z Carter’ (born 1969), to name a few more victims of horrific child abuse.

Early in my police career when I was assigned to a Brooklyn community Shawn Jay Z Carter raps/writes about attempting destroy by selling dope/poison to people living and working in the community, a few of my training officers advised me to be prepared to experience “culture shock.”

When I asked what is meant by “culture shock,” I was told, “You’ll find out.”

I did find out what “culture shock” is, though it was not a culture of violence and harmful anti-social activities many were insinuating I would be shocked by.

The aspect of this Brooklyn, NY community that shocked me to the core was witnessing children being emotionally scarred by a “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that Kendrick Lamar raps and speaks about some twenty-five years after I first witnessed the “American Sub-Culture of Child Abuse/Neglect” that today CONTINUES emotionally damaging many developing children and their communities.

I personally witnessed the emotional trauma and physical pain a young, neglected, unsupervised, Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter is responsible for causing, and its aftermath, leaving a community populated by mostly peaceful people fearing for their safety on a 24/7 basis, which are the hours Shawn’s crew/gang were selling community harming substances.

During the twelve years I served this community I met hundreds of peaceful people who were just as shaken, upset and deeply disturbed as I was by the daily displays of violence and other anti-social activities mostly caused by teens and adults who were victims of childhood abuse and neglect.

I was lucky, at the end of my workday I could leave the community, returning to a more peaceful residential community were concerns for me and my family’s safety were significantly lower.

However, virtually all of my civilian co-workers, mostly loving, competent moms living in this community were not as fortunate. They were burdened with stresses and challenges my parents did not face to any significant degree.

The added stresses and challenges my peaceful co-workers faced was preventing their children from being negatively influenced by abused/neglected/unsupervised children being raised and nurtured by immature, “living wild” teen moms and young women who irresponsibly begin building families before they acquired the skills, maturity, PATIENCE and means to independently provide for their family of developing children.

Reading Kendrick’s background, if you have any compassion for kids, you have to feel horrible for a FIRST GRADE school child who can’t depend on his mom to be there for him, a mom who exposes him to things kids should not have to witness and deal with in their young minds.

Kendrick has taken a bold first step by revealing his mother (and father) made poor choices that deprived him of experiencing a safe, somewhat happy childhood…

YET NO ONE IS LISTENING TO KENDRICK….WHY?

If Americans sincerely wish to reduce community and gun violence that often leads to police fear and anxiety, that sometimes leads to police misconduct and/or aggression, the question all concerned, compassionate Americans should seriously be asking ourselves, our elected, civil, social, community and religious leaders is, “What real substantial changes in our society’s attitude and laws need to occur to prevent abuse that often causes young kids to mature into depressed, frustrated, angry teens and adults as a result of experiencing the emotional and/or physical trauma of an abusive childhood?

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2016/01/01/kendrick-lamar-hard-work-video-will-he-be-the-chosen-one/

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Take Pride In Parenting; End Our National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect; End Community Violence, Police Fear & Educator’s Frustrations

Is Jaye DeBlack incorrect about his assessment of many SINGLE MOMS and how they are emotionally harming a substantial population of our nation’s children by irresponsibly building families out of selfishness – instead of caring and love between two committed adult partners?

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Emotional Abuse

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/dr-joy-degruy-addresses-black-depression-violence-and-healing/

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Sandra Bland Indirectly Speaks About Child Abuse and Neglect Harming Her Quality of Life And Community

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Social Activist Sandra Bland

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/07/17/sandra-bland-indirectly-speaks-about-child-abuse-and-neglect-harming-her-quality-of-life-and-community/

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Victims of Child Abuse

This video depicts horrific examples of men who were victims of childhood abuse and neglect, conditioning a young teen to embrace ‘The Street’ culture Baltimore Mom of The Year failed to protect her teen son from…not to mention representing the fear peaceful people living and WORKING in the community experience knowing depressed, angry, unpredictable teens and young adults need to vent their angers and frustrations for being introduced to a life of pain and struggle by irresponsible, “living wild” single moms and/or dads.

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A little girl, catching a cool breeze from an air conditioning unit in the yard, was blindsided by another child about her same age, who had evidently had some practice with fighting fierce. The small victim wasn’t alone, as there were plenty of nearby witnesses, who could have protected her but didn’t because they were too busy recording the brutal beat down and encouraging it. | Written By Amanda Shea

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Depraved Indifference for Human Life?

What I see in this recorded act of criminal child abuse, is adults conditioning children to embrace the cycle of child abuse, child maltreatment and violence passed down from generation to generation by depressed Americans who are content living in the poverty they are primarily responsible for fueling when irresponsibly birthing children from selfishness, instead of the love between two committed adult partners.

Unedited Mirror:

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=798_1437634337

red-dotVictims of Child Abuse – Brooklyn, NY:

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/05/01/black-child-abuse/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/brooklyn-ny-newborn-raised-to-be-a-baddd-boy/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/brooklyns-boom-box-mom/

https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/victim-of-abuse/

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Nationally Popular Victims of Early Childhood Abuse and Neglect

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

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In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

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Victim of America’s expanding and shameful *National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect,* aka *Poverty*, that for decades has deprived untold numbers of emotionally abused and neglected young developing children from experiencing and enjoying a safe, fairly happy American kid childhood!

#TakePrideInParenting
#EndChildAbuseNeglect
#ProtectKidsFromIrresponsibleCaregivers

Is This Horrific Child Abuse, Minimal Child Abuse, Or Acceptable Child Abuse?

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https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/dr-joy-degruy-addresses-black-depression-violence-and-healing/

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IS THIS HORRIFIC CHILD ABUSE, MINIMAL CHILD ABUSE, OR ACCEPTABLE CHILD ABUSE?

This is NOT a question about a music performer, this question HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MUSIC!

This IS a question about EMOTIONAL CHILD ABUSE & NEGLECT.

In his 2015 Grammy award winning rap performance, “I”, American Rap Performance Artist Kendrick Lamar reveals, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

In a January 20, 2011 LAWeekly interview (Google search), American rapper and 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy award, he told the interviewer:

“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

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In your opinion, is it possible a child raised by “living wild” parents could develop into a emotionally damaged, troubled teen/adult who resents his or her parents for introducing them to a life that is/was NOT safe for them or their developing brothers and sisters?

Could a developing child raised and nurtured like Kendrick, develop into a depressed, angry teen who believes he has been deprived of an Average Joe childhood, resulting with the teen venting his anger and frustrations on his peaceful neighbors?

Is it possible some or many kids raised and nurtured in the “living wild” environment Kendrick describes might cause some police to fear for their safety, resulting with some cops using excessive force because they fear being physically injured or worse by depressed, angry, unsupervised children raised and nurtured by “living wild” caretakers?

Especially officers (humans) who on a daily basis witness the fear, sadness, emotional trauma and physical pain caused to peaceful people (humans) in Kendrick’s community by PARENTS who slowly condition their children to embrace and accept the “living wild” (human) lifestyle Kendrick writes about being victimized by?

Is Kendrick wrong for believing his brothers and sisters, cousins, neighborhood friends, elementary and JHS classmates (developing humans) were deprived of experiencing a safe, fairly happy Average Joe or Josie American kid life by the “living wild” lifestyle that he speaks about being raised and nurtured in?

Do you believe as I, that SYSTEMIC CHILD ABUSE/NEGLECT is the primary cause for most all the pain, struggle, hardships, anger and frustrations some or many of our American neighbors experience from childhood through adulthood?

If you do believe Child Abuse and Emotional Neglect are responsible for Kendrick and many American kids being deprived of experiencing a safe, fairly happy childhood, should the two most powerful voices in the United States of America, (POTUS/FLOTUS) aka “The Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave”, bravely and freely address the issue of children being deprived of their inalienable right to experience a safe, fairly happy American kid life?

In the 20th century American Society addressed the human ignorance of racism by creating laws to educate and eliminate this ignorance.

In the 21st century, should society strengthen child abuse laws to educate and help kids like Kendrick, Tupac Shakur and many others experience a safe American kid life?

red-dotVictims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds from the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

https://knutesniche.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/shawn-jayz-carter-brooklyns-finest.png

In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

When Parents Are Too Toxic to Tolerate – NY Times (2009)

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https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/dr-joy-degruy-addresses-black-depression-violence-and-healing/

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By RICHARD A. FRIEDMAN, M.D.
Published: October 19, 2009

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/20/health/20mind.html

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Excerpt from Dr. Friedman’s NYT article:

You can divorce an abusive spouse. You can call it quits if your lover mistreats you. But what can you do if the source of your misery is your own parent?

Granted, no parent is perfect. And whining about parental failure, real or not, is practically an American pastime that keeps the therapeutic community dutifully employed.

But just as there are ordinary good-enough parents who mysteriously produce a difficult child, there are some decent people who have the misfortune of having a truly toxic parent.

A patient of mine, a lovely woman in her 60s whom I treated for depression…..

Please visit the NYTimes website to learn more about stressed family relationships.

Dr. Richard A. Friedman is a professor of psychiatry at Weill Cornell Medical College.

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In his 2015 Grammy award winning Rap Performance titled “I”, Kendrick Lamar writes, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

In a January 2011 LAWeekly interview Kendrick, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and victim denial that was nominated for a Grammy award, he told the interviewer:

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“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

Seems to me Kendrick identified the source of his depression, the roots of poverty, the child abuse/maltreatment that prevented him, his brothers, sisters, cousins, neighborhood friends and elementary school classmates from enjoying a fairly happy safe childhood.

Seems the adults responsible for raising the children in Kendrick’s immediate and extended family placed obstacles in their children’s way, causing their kids to deal with challenges and stresses young minds are not prepared to deal with…nor should they or any other children be exposed to and have to deal with.

Perhaps these obstacles and challenges cause some developing children’s minds to become tormented and go haywire, not knowing OR NOT CARING ABOUT right from wrong though knowing their parents introduced them to a life of pain and struggle, totally unlike the mostly safe, happy life the media showed them many American kids were enjoying.

I wonder how little Kendrick and his classmates reacted when their elementary school teacher introduced the DARE presenter and they learned about the real dangers of drugs and how they harm people, including their parents?

In a Oct 25, 2012, LAWeekly interview Kendrick talks about not being able to trust and rely on his mom. He shares his experiences about feeling lonely, which if you read up on Cognitive Dissonance that Dr. Joy Degruy writes about in her book, “Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome: America’s Legacy of Enduring Injury and Healing (PTSS)”, is it perfectly understandable why Kendrick feels lonely.

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red-dotRead popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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red-dotShawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

knutesniche.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/shawn-jayz-carter-brooklyns-finest.png

red-dotIn 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

Accepting That Good Parents May Plant Bad Seeds – The New York Times

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https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/dr-joy-degruy-addresses-black-depression-violence-and-healing/

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Excerpt from the NYTimes article:

“We marvel at the resilient child who survives the most toxic parents and home environment and goes on to a life of success. Yet the converse — the notion that some children might be the bad seeds of more or less decent parents — is hard to take.”

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In his 2015 Grammy award winning Rap Performance titled “I”, Kendrick Lamar writes, “I’ve been dealing with depression ever since an adolescent.”

In a January 2011 LAWeekly interview Kendrick, born in 1987, the same year songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and victim denial that was nominated for a Grammy award, he told the interviewer:

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“Lamar’s parents moved from Chicago to Compton in 1984 with all of $500 in their pockets. “My mom’s one of 13 [THIRTEEN] siblings, and they all got SIX kids, and till I was 13 everybody was in Compton,” he says.”

“I’m 6 years old, seein’ my uncles playing with shotguns, sellin’ dope in front of the apartment. My moms and pops never said nothing, ’cause they were young and living wild, too. I got about 15 stories like ‘Average Joe.'”

Seems to me Kendrick identified the source of his depression, the roots of poverty, the child abuse/maltreatment that prevented him, his brothers, sisters, cousins, neighborhood friends and elementary school classmates from enjoying a fairly happy safe childhood.

Seems the adults responsible for raising the children in Kendrick’s immediate and extended family placed obstacles in their children’s way, causing their kids to deal with challenges and stresses young minds are not prepared to deal with…nor should they or any other children be exposed to and have to deal with.

Perhaps these obstacles and challenges cause some developing children’s minds to become tormented and go haywire, not knowing OR NOT CARING ABOUT right from wrong though knowing their parents introduced them to a life of pain and struggle, totally unlike the mostly safe, happy life the media showed them many American kids were enjoying.

I wonder how little Kendrick and his classmates reacted when their elementary school teacher introduced the DARE presenter and they learned about the real dangers of drugs and how they harm people, including their parents?

In a Oct 25, 2012, LAWeekly interview Kendrick talks about not being able to trust and rely on his mom. He shares his experiences about feeling lonely, which if you read up on Cognitive Dissonance that Dr. Joy Degruy writes about in her book, “Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome: America’s Legacy of Enduring Injury and Healing (PTSS)”, is it perfectly understandable why Kendrick feels lonely.

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Kendrick has taken a bold first step by revealing his mother made poor choices that deprived him of experiencing a safe, somewhat happy childhood.

Reading Kendrick’s background, if you have any compassion for kids, you have to feel horrible for a grade school child who can’t depend on his mom to be there for him, a mom who exposes him to things kids should not have to witness and deal with in their young minds.

Victims of Child Abuse:

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

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Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

knutesniche.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/shawn-jayz-carter-brooklyns-finest.png

In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

#protect-kids-from-irresponsible-caregivers

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Accept.

I do not believe Ms. Whitfield is a nut case.

I believe in her mind she was thinking, “These guys had some pair of balls and were a little crazy as well.” Sadly she choose the wrong way of expressing her thoughts to a G-Rated audience. Yup, that is what I believe.

If Ms. Whitfield has a history of making crazy comments, I’d like to learn about it.

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Quick-thinking Dallas sheriff’s deputy helps capture DPD shooter

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https://knutesniche.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/dr-joy-degruy-addresses-black-depression-violence-and-healing/

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via Quick-thinking Dallas sheriff’s deputy helps capture DPD shooter

red-dotHaving participated in a few hi-speed felony auto pursuits, I’ve experienced the deep concerns that anything could happen at any moment and innocent people could be hurt or worse.

Believe me, as fun as they may appear, for most ordinary human beings auto pursuits are seriously heart thumping events we want to avoid at all costs.

In this case, knowing many people do not pay attention to their surroundings, watching Deputy Caldwell speeding down the shoulder to get in position caused me anxiety in that anything could happen at anytime.

Every cop deals differently with these stresses. Deputy Caldwell did a great job of dealing with the stress, safely getting herself in position to effectively end this chase.

If I was one of the cops in that pursuit, when the dust settled, she get the biggest hug she ever experienced.

After experiencing what was probably her first natural high from  performing police work, the euphoria of knowing you done good, real good, I’m wishing Katrina a long safe career and a few more natural highs to help through the times when things don’t go so well.

#Recognize-report-emotional-child-abuse