Facebook photo of Baltimore Mom Toya Graham with son Michael

I’ll get right to my point.

Should Baltimore mom Ms. Toya Graham be held ACCOUNTABLE for immorally and irresponsibly introducing SIX children to a life of pain and struggle that caused her depressed teen son and many of his depressed teen classmates to try and cause grave harm or death to police attempting to protect peaceful Baltimore residents from being emotionally and/or physically injured by depressed angry teens and adults peeved for being introduced to a life of hardships and pain by their immature moms.

Son: Michael Graham has been in trouble, his mother acknowledged. He posted this image on a social media profile, with what appears to be a handgun and a joint.
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Should Tavis Smiley’s teen mom be held ACCOUNTABLE for irresponsibly building a family of ten children, nine of whom Tavis revealed in a May 2015 discussion about Poverty, continue to struggle with Poverty?

Should Freddie Gray’s mom Gloria Darden be held ACCOUNTABLE for failing to place the welfare and well being of her child ABOVE ALL ELSE….and for failing in her parental duty/obligation to her child as well as societal responsibility to her community and Nation to raise a child maturing into a reasonably responsible teen and adult respecting himself, as well as his neighbors and the authority charged with maintaining peace in all our communities?

Should our nation’s CHILD WELFARE LAWS be re-examined and modified to PREVENT MATERNAL caregivers from creating POVERTY by irresponsibly introducing children to a life of pain and struggle?

The responsible Americans who regularly witness THE OPPRESSION & EMOTIONAL or PHYSICAL ABUSE of our nation’s most precious and valuable assets seem to believe our CHILD PROTECTION LAWS need to be changed to protect kids from CRIMINALLY NEGLIGENT MOMS!

What do my American neighbors think?

Should we continue allowing depressed, immature, irresponsible American females to create human life that far too often ends up causing emotional and physical harm to our peaceful neighbors and populating our CJS and prisons?

I spent the first twelve years of my police career serving the Brooklyn, NY community Shawn Jay Z Carter joyously raps OPPRESSING and terrorizing with his drug peddling trade that he and his crew/gang/posse protected and enforced with their semi-automatic Mack Millis.

I spent twelve years of my life personally witnessing young developing children being emotionally scarred for life by mostly single moms who built families out of their own selfishness and immaturity.

I spent twelve years of my life experiencing fear, anxiety, emotional pain and heartache that was no different from the emotions experienced by countless victims of violence committed against them by depressed, frustrated, angry, unpredictable, sometimes suicidal (NY Times May 18, 2015 – Rise in Suicide by Black Children Surprises Researchers) teens and adults who were horribly abused and neglected by their MATERNAL caregivers.

I spent twelve years witnessing CRIMINALLY NEGLIGENT moms engage in irresponsible, life OPPRESSING human behaviors that has resulted with a substantial population of my African American neighbors viewing and/or rapping about the MATERNAL HALF of our society being less than human ^itches and ^hores unworthy of respect.

A significant number of these Americans perform before our international neighbors while hating-on and demeaning our moms, sisters, grandmas, daughters, aunts and nieces. :sadness:

I find it very sad and reprehensible that not only are Americans children and teens exposed to angry music performers hating our moms, but so are our neighbors all around our beautiful tiny blue orb. :angry/sad:

I do not want to sound arrogant, though if you respond to this writing I do not want to read about the legacy of racism, “white privilege” or any other issues that DEFLECT from discussing TODAY’S American children being OPPRESSED by individual Americans who ignore their parental and societal duty/RESPONSIBILITY/obligation to raise and nurture fairly happy American kids enjoying SAFE STREETS to travel and play on.


Black (Children’s) Lives Matter; Take Pride In Parenting; End Our National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect; End Community Violence, Police Fear & Educator’s Frustrations

TAGS: injustice, inequality, police, police integrity, police misconduct, police anxiety, police aggression, police training, child abuse, child neglect, child maltreatment, child oppression, childhood depression, black lives matter, maternal responsibility, gangs, drug abuse, gun violence, community violence, teen depression, teen violence, teen suicide, adult depression, educator/teacher frustration, sadness, solutions?,


Take Pride In Parenting; End Our National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect; End Community Violence, Police Fear & Educator’s Frustrations

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Robert K. Ross, MD, President and CEO of The California Endowment

Robert K. Ross, MD, President and CEO of The California Endowment, gives a compelling overview of the role that exposure to childhood trauma plays in the lives of troubled and chronically ill Americans.

After watching Dr. Ross’ presentation one of the questions all concerned, compassionate Americans should seriously be asking ourselves, our elected, civil, social, community and religious leaders is, “What real substantial changes in our society’s attitude and laws need to occur to prevent Child Abuse and Neglect that often causes young kids to mature into depressed, frustrated, angry, unpredictable, sometimes suicidal teens and adults as a result of experiencing the emotional and/or physical trauma of an abusive childhood?”

At 2:12:25 in this documentary about Mafia hitman and victim of Early Childhood Trauma/Abuse, Richard “The Iceman” Kuklinski, Dr. Park Dietz explains why young Richard most likely developed into a emotionally disturbed, paranoid, cruel, heartless teen and man who did not give a frig about anyone else, including his wife and kids.


Is Jaye DeBlack incorrect about his assessment of many SINGLE MOMS and how they are emotionally harming a substantial population of our nation’s children by irresponsibly building families out of selfishness – instead of caring and love between two committed adult partners?



Emotional Abuse


Sandra Bland Indirectly Speaks About Child Abuse and Neglect Harming Her Quality of Life And Community

Sandra Bland – Social Activist For Peace


Sad & Maddening Results of African American Child Abuse & Neglect!!!

James Michael Phillips & his Victim Julie Dombo


Victims of Child Abuse

This video depicts horrific examples of men who were victims of childhood abuse and neglect, conditioning a young teen to embrace ‘The Street’ culture Baltimore Mom of The Year failed to protect her teen son from…not to mention representing the fear peaceful people living and WORKING in the community experience knowing depressed, angry, unpredictable teens and young adults need to vent their angers and frustrations for being introduced to a life of pain and struggle by irresponsible, “living wild” single moms and/or dads.


A little girl, catching a cool breeze from an air conditioning unit in the yard, was blindsided by another child about her same age, who had evidently had some practice with fighting fierce. The small victim wasn’t alone, as there were plenty of nearby witnesses, who could have protected her but didn’t because they were too busy recording the brutal beat down and encouraging it. | Written By Amanda Shea

Depraved Indifference for Human Life?

What I see in this recorded act of criminal child abuse, is adults conditioning children to embrace the cycle of child abuse, child maltreatment and violence passed down from generation to generation by depressed Americans who are content living in the poverty they are primarily responsible for fueling when irresponsibly birthing children from selfishness, instead of the love between two committed adult partners.

Unedited Mirror:

red-dotVictims of Child Abuse – Brooklyn, NY:


Nationally Popular Victims of Early Childhood Abuse and Neglect

Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.

Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.

Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.

Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.

In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.

Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.

“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say

And it’s not your business anyway”

Victim of America’s expanding and shameful *National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect,* aka *Poverty*, that for decades has deprived untold numbers of emotionally abused and neglected young developing children from experiencing and enjoying a safe, fairly happy American kid childhood!


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