Hello. Keeping it 100% Real, Factual & Respectful.
Beginning in the early 80’s I spent near-twelve years of my life as an overworked rookie uniform cop, as well as an extremely active robbery and death investigator serving YOUNG “Childhood Trauma” (#ACEs) victims Shawn “Jay-Z” Carter’s and the late Christopher “Biggie Smalls” Wallace’s Brooklyn, NY, neighborhoods…
…where on a daily basis I spoke with, interviewed or interrogated innocent (or not-so-innocent) fellow American citizens emotionally and/or physically harmed by the violent, suic!dal, homic!dal (May 18, 2015 – Rise in Suic!de by Black Children Surprises Researchers – The New York Times) ‘family, people and community harming anti-social behaviors’ Biggie, as well as President Obama’s friend Shawn Carter gleefully rap about.
Again, Keeping it 100% REAL. During these twelve years, on a near daily basis, I witnessed significant numbers of SELFISH, incompetent, immature, apathetic, possibly emotionally or mentally ill teen and adult mothers failing to place ABOVE ALL ELSE the emotional well being of the children they CHOSE to create.
Frankly, if I did not have these life experiences, I would have NO CLUE why Shawn, Biggie, as well as untold numbers of their American urban story-TRUTH-teller peers, including Pres. and Mrs. Obama friends, compose violence riddled music informing our ENTIRE WORLD that black or American girls, women and MOTHERS of African descent should be viewed as less than human BBBtches and treated like “HOES, THOTS or RATCHET” females undeserving of being treated with basic human respect.
I am fairly certain if I did not regularly witnessed our Nation’s unhealthy, potentially life scarring T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. CHILD CARE Public Health Crisis with my own eyes, I would have NO CLUE who Tupac is identifying as the INFANT HATING “U” in his much ignored, often misinterpreted T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect, Abandonment and Maltreatment AWARENESS-PREVENTION Public Service Announcement.
T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. – “The HATE U Give Little Infants Fvvks EVERYONE” ~Tupac Shakur, American Urban-TRUTH-Teller, Integrationist, Gun Violence Homicide and ‘Childhood Trauma’ (ACEs) victim
In closing, again Keeping it REAL. Unfortunately, my life experiences assure me not all police officers possess the maturity, people skills, human temperament or STAMINA for regularly interacting with a significant number of emotionally or mentally troubled, sometimes homic!dal, suic!dal thinking fellow or foreign born citizens.
Frankly, I believe police commanders and supervisors need to do a better job identifying officers experiencing “burn-out.”
Somehow I lasted nearly twelve years before experiencing ‘TOTAL BURNOUT’ when I recognized my empathy and compassion were being drained from me without being replenished.
Hello. I choose to join my responsible American neighbors examining the LARGER ISSUE.
Have our Nation’s medical professionals and CHILD ABUSE survivor Oprah Winfrey DECLARED WAR on a significant population of mostly American Moms failing to recognize that placing ABOVE ALL ELSE the emotional well being of our Nation’s most precious and cherished assets, will most likely result with a fairly or wonderfully happy child maturing into a reasonably responsible teen and adult citizen caring about their own well being, as well as embracing compassion, empathy and respect for their peaceful and less fortunate neighbors?
Now that American medical professionals & ‘Childhood Trauma’ (#ACEs) victim-survivor Oprah Winfrey have addressed our Nation’s CHILD CARE PUBLIC HEALTH CRISIS, will Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand, a responsible, caring American citizen join Oprah & Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, MD, FAAP, MPH, pediatrician & CEO of the ‘Center For Youth Wellness’, in passionately calling for a National MOVEMENT educating American & foreign born primary child caregivers about a potentially life scarring medical disease/condition:
During a March 11, 2018 ’60 Minutes’ segment titled, “Treating Trauma,” Oprah Winfrey, a ‘Childhood Trauma’ (#ACEs) victim-survivor, shared knowledge regarding America’s easily PREVENTABLE, though potentially life scarring CHILD CARE PUBLIC HEALTH CRISIS.
EYE-OPENING knowledge Oprah exuberantly confirms is a “game changer.”
YouTube search terms: “Oprah Winfrey ‘Fixing The ‘Hole In Your Soul'”
The late ‘Childhood Trauma’ (#ACEs) & Gun Violence Homicide victim Tupac Shakur’s T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect, Abandonment & Maltreatment AWARENESS-PREVENTION Public Service Announcement applies to American and foreign born citizens of ALL backgrounds:
T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. – “The Hate U Give Little Infants Fvvks EVERYONE” ~Tupac Shakur, American urban-TRUTH-teller
Introducing Child Abuse Awareness & Education Advocate, pediatrician Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, MD, FAAP, MPH, Founder and CEO of the ‘Center for Youth Wellness’.
“My mother was cancer, she would destroy EVERYBODY” ~Richard ‘The Iceman’ Kuklinsky, ‘Childhood Trauma’ (#ACEs) victim and now-deceased convicted serial murderer.
“I would have never been able to do this work if I had come into this world with a mother who stayed, who nurtured me in a healthy way.” ~Dr. Stacey Patton, Ph.D., Professor, Author, Child Abuse & Violence Researcher
American (Children) Lives Matter; Take Pride In Parenting; End Our National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglect; End Community Violence, Police Anxiety & Educator’s Frustrations
Educated, Angry Black American Female Ph.D Berating, Shaming American Men.
Hello, the following FB broadcasts were created by marriage counselor Dr. Shonna Etienne, Ph.D.
“BLACK MAN DEFINED: A Boy With A Purpose Becomes A Man When the Purpose is Fulfilled.” (PART 1) Published 3:08 PM Nov 29, 2018
“BLACK MAN DEFINED: A Boy With A Purpose Becomes A Man When the Purpose is Fulfilled.” (PART II) Published 7:20PM Nov 29, 2018
I have to be honest, keeping it REAL. Listening to Dr. Etienne I hear an angry, disingenuous American woman WILLFULLY IGNORING the fact that large numbers of SELFISH, immature, apathetic black American girls, women and mothers have kicked MEN out of their homes, opting for Uncle Sam or Child Support payments to provide for the #FATHERLESS children they choose to birth.
‘Lamenting Multiple Baby Daddies’ – Ms JazzySlim2005
Listening to Dr. Etienne I hear a hateful person choosing to denigrate black American citizens as C^^NS. :ugh:
Listening to Dr. Etienne I hear a fellow citizen calling for love and respect while angrily pointing fingers at men, many WHO THROUGH NO FAULT OF THEIR OWN, were irresponsibly introduced to a FATHERLESS, traumatic, potentially life scarring childhood and teen upbringing fraught with Struggles, PAIN, Hardships, COMMUNITY FEAR, Frustrations, Uncertainty, Depression, Sorrow, Sadness, Torment, Demeaning Government Handouts, Resentment, HATE and COMMUNITY VIOLENCE!
At 43:25 in (PART I) Dr. Etienne states, “This is about being at war and we on a team”
In a FB recording titled, “Let’s go to WAR #SandySpeaks”, the late practicing social activist Ms. Sandra Bland declares war on apparent emotionally ill fellow citizens she characterizes as “thugs and gangbangers.”
I m curious to learn if Dr. Etienne would have joined Ms. Bland in declaring war on a population of emotionally troubled citizens, WHO THROUGH NO FAULT OF THEIR OWN, experienced an UNHEALTHY, traumatic, potentially life scarring childhood and teen upbringing fraught with Struggles, PAIN, Hardships, COMMUNITY FEAR, Frustrations, Uncertainty, Depression, Sorrow, Sadness, Torment, Demeaning Government Handouts, Resentment, HATE and COMMUNITY VIOLENCE!
I published a few questions to (PART I) of Dr. Etienne’s Nov29 broadcast. She has not replied.
I’m going to be totally honest, listening to Dr. Etienne’s anger, rage and hostility toward men leads me to believe she belongs to a specific population of American women who President and Mrs. Obama’s American urban story-TRUTH-teller friends and WH guests denigrate as less than human b*tches.
Listening to Dr. Etienne leaves very little doubt she is an AVERAGE black American woman this apparent caring responsible woman speaks about in the following seven minute intelligent critique of women.
“Black women are destroying themselves and black men” ~BlacksUnited – Erika, Published on Mar 7, 2014
At 58:15 listening to Dr. Etienne willfully denigrate family and friends as “sleeping coons”, leaves no doubt she belongs to a population of illogical thinking, hate embracing PRO BLACK minded Americans who the following apparent caring American citizens speak about.
YouTube Search Terms: ‘Exposing ‘PRO BLACK’ Modus Operandi, Logic, Fvvkery, Savagery, White Supremacy’ ~Mrs. Princella Clark-Carr
YouTube Search Terms: Dysfunctional ‘PRO BLACK American’ Logic Succinctly Explained By Social Commentator Mr. David Carroll
Now that ‘Childhood Trauma’ (#ACEs) victim-survivor Oprah Winfrey has LOUDLY addressed our Nation’s Public Health Crisis, will Dr. Shonna Etienne, Ph.D join Oprah & Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, MD, pediatrician & CEO of the ‘Center For Youth Wellness’, in passionately calling for a National MOVEMENT educating American & foreign born primary child caregivers about our Nation’s PUBLIC HEALTH CRISIS & potentially life scarring medical disease/condition?
Recently, Oprah Winfrey learned about and shared knowledge regarding America’s easily PREVENTABLE, though potentially life scarring CHILD CARE PUBLIC HEALTH CRISIS. Knowledge Oprah exuberantly declares is a “game changer.”
“Oprah Winfrey, Fixing The ‘Hole In Your Soul'”
In closing I’d like to mention in the early 1980s I began a police career as uniform cop, robbery and homicide investigator spending near TWELVE years of my life serving YOUNG Child Abuse victims Christopher Biggie Smalls Wallace’s and Shawn JAY Z Carter’s Brooklyn, NY neighborhoods.
My friends, I can assure you black American boys and men are not the problem. Sadly, far too many American boys and men are victims of a potentially life scarring Culture of Systemic Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect and Maltreatment that large numbers of immature black or American mothers of African descent SELFISHLY choose to perpetuate.
Honestly, looking back I wish I’d spent more time Reporting Suspected Cases of Child Abuse and arresting child abusing mothers, than I did investigating the horrific crimes committed by traumatized boys and men whose moms birthed their children out of greed and selfishness, instead of love between two caring, reasonably responsible adults.
American (Children’s) Lives Matter; Take Pride In Parenting; End Our National Health Crisis; Child Abuse and Neglect; End Community Violence/Fear, Police Anxiety & Educator’s Frustrations
With all respect, how much evidence do Americans require before realizing Mr. Barack “My Brother’s Keeper” Obama is an emotionally ill American citizen who invites to his children’s and Nation’s home quite a few admitted or apparent emotionally ill American music recording artists and urban story-TRUTH-tellers who compose HATEFUL American art informing our world that American teen girls and women, aka the MATERNAL HALF of our population, should be viewed as less than human *itches and treated as *hores or “hoes” unworthy of basic human respect?
I am referring to admitted or apparent emotionally ill repeat Obama White House guests and friends like Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter and Kendrick Lamar who compose and promote HATEFUL American music art vividly describing the “SUPER PREDATOR”, VIOLENT, SUICIDAL/HOMICIDAL people and community harming behaviors they engaged in or witnessed their emotionally ill family members, friends or community members engaging in.
American (Children’s) Lives Matter; Take Pride In Parenting; End Our National Health Crisis; Child Abuse and Neglect; End Community Violence/Fear, Police Anxiety & Educator’s Frustrations
Regardless of their AGE, emotional, physical or MATERNAL condition, when Shawn Carter was in his teens he was peddling life scarring drugs to his depressed, self-harming neighbors.
Glad to see at least one member of the Carter family is making a healthy future for himself that does not include harming other American citizens or creating American music art hatefully demeaning American teen girls and women, aka the MATERNAL HALF of our population, as less than human *itches and “hoes” undeserving of basic human respect.
#T_H_U_G_L_I_F_E >>>REMEDY>>> #A_F_R_E_C_A_N
“America’s Firm Resolve to End Childhood Abuse and Neglect”
Honestly, am I supposed to be elated, or sad and disappointed by Mr. Obama’s association or friendship with American urban story and truth-teller Shawn Carter?
Why is Mr. Barack “My Brother’s Keeper” Obama enlisting an UNREPENTANT ‘people and community’ harming drug peddler to aid him in furthering any cause that is NOT related to addressing America’s Culture of African American Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect and Maltreatment?
I am referring to a Culture of Child Abuse, Neglect and Emotional Maltreatment responsible for traumatized, neglected and poorly supervised young Shawn Jay Z Carter maturing into an emotionally ill teen and adult creating popular American music art describing American teen girls and women, aka the MATERNAL HALF of our population, as less than human *itches and ‘Hoes’ unworthy of basic human respect.
A Culture of Child Abuse and Emotional Neglect responsible for Jay Z and many of his urban truth-telling peers vividly describing in their artistry and interviews America’s Gangsta/Gun Culture, evolving from America’s Culture of African American Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect and Maltreatment…evolving from America’s long-standing, multi-generational, ignorant Culture of Racism!
Frankly, I believe many of Mr. Obama’s words are hollow and meaningless. I also believe his actions are impeding our American neighbors of African descent from experiencing the respect and equality all peaceful Americans are entitled to enjoy. :sad
Jay Z plans to help Hillary Clinton with rally voters in Ohio for a Get Out The Vote show next month. Set for Nov. 4, just four days before the 2016 election, Jay will be joined by special guests to help mobilize Ohioans to vote for Clinton, according to a release. A huge turnout in the African American community for Clinton in the swing state would be a crucial victory in the race against Republican Party rep Donald Trump. Jay Z hosted similar events in 2008 and 2012 for President Barack Obama. Posted By Persist
Mrs. Hillary Clinton once characterized as Super Predators, children, teens and adults much like Shawn Jay Z Carter, born 1969, who during a critical period of their childhood/human development regularly experienced America’s current National HEALTH CRISIS, aka America’s Culture of African American Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect and Maltreatment that evolved from America’s long-standing, ignorant Culture of Racism.
…put on a concert alerting young Americans to America’s Culture of Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect/Abandonment and Maltreatment that deprived him, as well as significant numbers of popular recording artists and urban storytellers, as well as untold numbers of American kids of African descent from experiencing a SAFE, fairly or wonderfully happy American kid childhood?
How many of my American neighbors are familiar with the late popular urban storyteller Tupac Shakur’s #T_H_U_G_L_I_F_E Child Abuse and Emotional Neglect AWARENESS concept:
“The Hate U Give Little Infants Fvvks Everyone” ~Tupac Shakur
“We need more people who care; you know what I’m saying? We need more women, mothers, fathers, we need more of that…” ~Tupac Shakur
Tupac intelligently recognized not only are American kids being UNJUSTLY OPPRESSED, IMPEDED and DEPRIVED from experiencing their full human potential, Tupac realized OUR NATION is being deprived of enjoying the potential achievements offered to ALL Americans by fairly or wonderfully happy kids maturing into reasonably responsible teens and adults caring about the future of OUR Nation, and the welfare of their peaceful, as well as less fortunate neighbors.
I believe Tupac correctly recognized Americans need to change the name of our “War On Poverty”, to “America’s Resolve to End Childhood Abuse, Emotional Neglect and Maltreatment.”
Are you familiar with America’s current National Health Crisis?
Doctors Ross and Dietz offer insights into how our Early Childhood Development plays a key role in determining the type of individual we mature into.
Robert K. Ross, MD, President and CEO of The California Endowment, addressed inmates at Ironwood State Prison offering a compelling overview of the role that exposure to Childhood Trauma plays in the lives of Emotionally Troubled and chronically ill American teens and adults.
At 2:12:25 in this documentary about Mafia hit-man and victim of Early Childhood Trauma/Abuse, Richard “The Iceman” Kuklinski, Dr. Park Dietz explains why young Richard most likely developed into a emotionally disturbed, paranoid, cruel, heartless teen and man who did not give a frig about anyone else, including his wife and kids.
(NY Times May 18, 2015 – Rise in Suicide by Black Children Surprises Researchers)
Black Women, Suicide, Depression, Self Harm & Mental Health; PSA from Abiola Abrams
Repeat White House Guest and Obama Friend “Kendrick Lamar Talks About ‘u,’ His Depression & Suicidal Thoughts (Pt. 2) | MTV News – YouTube April 2015”
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“As a society, we have to acknowledge that there is something wrong when we are locking up this many folks, with this kind of frequency, concentrated in a handful of communities in cities, and towns, and counties across this country.” —President Obama
Mr. Barack “Common Sense” Obama is not alone in ignoring the PRIMARY reason why a “handful” of American cities, towns and communities experience a higher rate of arrests. I noticed his good friend, Reverend Al Sharpton in the audience, another American who wishes to ignore our expanding National Epidemic of Child Abuse and Neglectthat for decades has deprived countless numbers of children from experiencing and enjoying a fairly happy American kid childhood with Safe Fun Neighborhood Streets to travel and play in.
Child abuse is a crime. Child Neglect is a crime. Child Maltreatment is a crime.
All or one of these offenses are crimes that many developing children’s bodies and/or minds – children residing in a “handful” of American cities, towns and communities – experience before they graduate from elementary school.
During the most critical period of a human’s emotional and psychological development, countless children are being subjected to these crimes against children and society by their own immature moms and/or dads who selfishly and irresponsibly begin building families before acquiring the skills, PATIENCE, and means to properly raise and nurture young developing minds.
I spent nearly twelve years providing police services to the NYC housing community and surrounding neighborhoods American rap performance artist Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter writes about attempting to destroy by selling crack cocaine to his depressed – often emotionally scarred by early childhood abuse – neighbors who often resort to violence or other crimes against people or property when acquiring funds to purchase Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter’s highly addictive and life inhibiting drug.
Mr. Obama believes drug dealing is a non-violent crime, yet Shawn ‘Jay Z’ Carter raps/writes about using his semi-automatic “Mack_Milli” to protect his crew/gang and drug operation from rival drug gangs, while at the same time causing fear to peaceful people through intimidation and threats of violence.
I’ve been in the vicinity of the Marcy Houses, witnessed muzzle flashes, heard semi-auto firearms report its gunfire, investigated the property damage, and/or the human physical and emotional damage Shawn or his crew, or their often severely depressed addicted customers, caused to peaceful people on a 24/7/365 basis.
Shawn Jay Z Carter himself is a victim of child neglect, admitting he was a preteen when he shot his older substance abusing brother with a firearm for stealing from a family member.
Frankly, I am becoming weary of educated “Common Sense” people ignoring experienced, sensible leaders like Milwaukee Sheriff Clarke.
Using his ordinary “Common Sense,” Sheriff Clarke goes right to the ‘bottom-line’ identifying who is responsible raising and nurturing depressed children, often maturing into depressed angry, frustrated, unpredictable teens and adults full of resentment for being introduced to a life of hardship and struggle by their immature caregivers, mostly single moms.
Using my ordinary “Common Sense” I ask myself, “If Baltimore Mom of The Year Toya Graham had built a smaller family she could more easily provide for, nurture and supervise, would her young teen son be in The Street attempting to cause grave harm to peaceful people attempting to protect Ms. Graham’s peaceful neighbors from emotional and physical harm often caused to innocent people by depressed, angry frustrated teens and young men who are peeved for irresponsibly being introduced to a life of struggle and hardship?”
I do not mean to exclusively pick-on Ms. Graham, she is one of countless immature, IMPATIENT teenage girls who succumbed to and perpetuates the generational cycle of Child Abuse and Neglect (aka, Poverty) that deprives countless numbers of children from experiencing a safe, fairly happy American kid childhood. Just like the gunfire and muzzle flashes Shawn Carter writes/raps about, I have witnessed the sadness and despair of young children being victimized by mothers who 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar describes as “living wild.”
Other frustrated Americans have taken to YouTube, creating channels, producing video recordings expressing their personal experiences and opinions for why many American teen girls and women of African descent are doing a substandard job of mothering their young children.
There are many YT channels focused on “hoodrats, rachettes, ect…too many!
I’ve followed YTers David Carroll, Tommy “Mr. Madness” Sotomayor and more recently RingoTVRaw. Each one of these men has their own style for expressing their thoughts and apparent frustrations about a sub-culture of severely immature, “living wild” American women of African descent.
In substance, each one of these men, two are dads with daughters, address the same issue I write about….maternal responsibility, or more accurately, maternal irresponsibility.
I’m with Sheriff Clarke, we need to re-examine society’s child protection and welfare laws.
Cameras on cops…cool….it’s about time.
Even cooler is cameras in the common areas of homes that develop a public track record for requiring extra supervision when raising and nurturing our nation’s young.
If we do not take affirmative action to protect children, “the ghetto” will continue to thrive, fueled by poor parenting, resulting with depressed kids maturing into depressed teens and adults who often vent their angers and frustrations on their peaceful neighbors, instead of the person(s) responsible for introducing them to a life of hardship, pain and struggle.
Restore Pride In Parenting; End Child Abuse & Neglect
Read popular American rapper Tupac Amaru Shakur (Lesane Parish Crooks; June 16, 1971 – September 13, 1996) lyrics to learn about his love-hate relationship with his mom, his great disappointment with his dad, and about Tupac’s frequent suicidal thoughts.
Read about how Tupac’s drug addicted mother accepted proceeds of the harmful anti-social acts Tupac raps/writes about committing against his peaceful neighbors. I have to tell you, reading Tupac’s lyrics brings back a lot memories of the horrific emotional child abuse I witnessed during the nearly twelve year I provided police services to Shawn Carter’s community.
Shawn “Jay Z” Carter (born December 4, 1969) is another victim of child abuse/neglect who raps/writes about the physical harm and fear he caused to his peaceful neighbors and community.
Reading Shawn “Jay Z” Carter describe the pain he caused to his neighbors and community, brought back painful memories, causing me experience much of the same anxiety and pain I experienced from personally witnessing the physical and emotional pain young Shawn Carter caused to individuals as well as an entire housing complex and surrounding neighborhoods.
In 1987, the same year emotionally depressed 2015 Grammy winner Kendrick Lamar was born, songwriter Suzanne Vega wrote a song about child abuse and VICTIM DENIAL that was nominated for a Grammy.
Suzanne nailed it, parents and caregivers do the most horrific things to their kids, yet many kids will defend their abusers, blaming themselves for their “blues,” bruises and injuries before admitting a parent/caretaker harmed them.
“Yes I think I’m okay I walked into the door again Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say